No one is trying to destroy your faith. If your faith won't stand up to either you or I being wrong about the exact day of the week Jesus died, well, I don't know what to say. No one who wrote the Bible under inspiration is wrong! Either of us might be wrong in our understanding of it.As for me and my house, I am all in for the traditional view. You are not going to destroy my faith by pointing out numerical difficulties within God's inspired word.
I am not confused about what I think the Bible says, but I was confused in trying to understand what you are saying you believe. Rather than a straightforward answer, you mostly asked a bunch of questions. If you don't want to clarify, I'll just leave it at that.