Wow. Just, wow.
I have Evangelist on ignore; but I've been seeing snippets of what he's saying thanks to those quoting him. So let me say it again: Wow.
Can any of you point to any of the dozens of threads that this guy has started, and actually say he listened to any advice anyone has given him -- unless it agreed with his viewpoint?
The people posting in this thread are pretty much 100% in agreement about what he should do now (note that: all the calvinists and all the arminians and all the others are in 100% agreement! This will probably NEVER happen again!); yet what has his continual response been? He can't leave; he learned his lesson so he won't make the same mistake again; he won't use the word "reformed" but he'll continue teaching reformed theology. Note especially that he said he knows better than his pastor.
Evangelist is a street preacher who has never discipled any of the people he's led to the Lord. A pastor is a man who has taken on a calling to be the under-shepherd of the flock 24 hours a day, seven days a week, 365 days a year. Evangelist probably hasn't even been in half the congregation's houses; not only has the pastor been in their houses, but he's visited them in the hospital, comforted them during trials and tribulations, and preached at their funerals. But Evangelist knows better than the pastor.
ShagNappy and go2church nailed it: doesn't matter one's physical age when you're talking about maturity. And Evangelist's lack of maturity points to a mental incapacity that can only be explained by mental illness, a condition similar to Sheldon Cooper on "Big Bang Theory," or a troll crafting messages to see what responses they receive.
If Evangelist is on the up-and-up, he will never abide by your advice unless it agrees with what he wants to do. I advise you all: Exercise some spiritual discernment about this guy, and shake the dust off and move on.
I know it sounds harsh; but that's why I have him on ignore.
Okay, back to avoiding his threads.