So you think Acts13:48 is wrong? "And when the Gentiles heard this, they were glad, and glorified the word of the Lord: and as many as were ordained to eternal life believed."
Again, it is not all about you. It is all about Christ.
None of me.
All of Him.
Are you sure you want to use that verse? The context is not elect verses non elect. The context is jew verses Gentile. The word translated as ordained can also be used as disposed. The gospel, in that passage, was rejected by the unbelieving Jews and so Paul turns to those who were disposed to hear it which were the Gentiles. Context is king.