Faith comes from God....it's a gift. Stop taking credit for your faith!
That's the biggest difference. I thank God for my faith that he has given me. You don't and mock at that and claim you made your own faith. Do you understand now? You might want to rethink your "absurd" statements.
btw, faith as a gift from God is no where just a belief of Calvinist. I know plenty of people that are not Calvinist that believe faith is a gift from God. You are actually one of the few that I know that would deny that.
Faith is not a gift of God. Notice you state this error with no Scripture to back it up. That is because there is none. It is plain error stated again and again so that people without thinking mindlessly accept it. That is a pity.
God does not give spiritual gifts and/or the fruit of the Spirit to the unsaved. He never has, does not, and never will. He does not do those things which go against his nature.
Faith is something that we all have. It is an innate quality that man is born with. We are made in God's image. God gave us the ability to reason, to think, to trust, etc.
Even a child knows innately to put his faith in his parents (rather than a stranger), knowing that it is his parents that will provide, protect and nourish him. That is faith, confidence, trust. It is the kind of faith Jesus said we must have if we are to enter his kingdom--the simple faith of a child.
I have faith in my wife. If she says she is going to make supper I believe her. I have confidence in her word, that what she says she will do, she will accomplish it.
And that is what Abraham said about God.
He staggered not at the promise of God through unbelief; but was
strong in faith, giving glory to God; And being
fully persuaded that, what he had promised, he was able also to perform. (Romans 4:20-21)
First it says that Abraham was strong in faith. And then it tells us what faith is.
Faith is being persuaded that what one has promised he is able to do.
We exercise faith every day.
We put our confidence or trust in various individuals or even things every day.
(wife or spouse, pastor, teacher, pilot, cab driver, etc.)
--Eventually one or more of them will fail you because they are human, and fallible.
When I put MY faith in God I know that he will never fail me because God is perfect, infallible and never fails.
Faith is not a gift from God. I must believe. I must be confident in God's message that it is true and will indeed save me.
Now, also understand, that faith is not a work. Thus salvation is not of works. Salvation is all of God. It is by grace through faith (our faith). IT (salvation) is the gift of God, and therefore must be received as the free gift of God, and must be received by faith.
Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and thou shalt be saved.
NOT, Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ with the gift of God's faith. That doesn't make sense.