Yes, with their long hair. (I Corinthians 11:15)
Speak no; sing yes (see Exodus 15:20-21, women were allowed to sing in the "church in the wilderness")
Yes, these are explicitly addressed by Paul. And how else can they be taken other than literally? Do you think he was writing figuratively? Most people that do not follow these commands use a different line of argument - like trying to say they only apply to Corinth or such like - because the idea that he is speaking figuratively is absurd.
Yes
1 Corinthians 9: 6-11
Yes
Colossians 4:15 Salute the brethren which are in Laodicea, and Nymphas, and the church which is in his house.
I'm assuming his house is a building.
No, never had a need. That doesn't mean it couldn't literally be done. Have you not seen some of the incredible prayers in the Bible that got answered?
God isn't our genie, and prayer isn't a game.
I never stole anything to my recollection.
No. There are other lesser means that can be taken before one goes to that ultimate extreme. But the verse is still literal. It is better (literally) to cut off your hand and enter life than to be cast into hell with both hands. And if your only option to avoid hell is to literally cut off your hand, that is in fact sound (literal) advice.
You don't literalize everything. When you read a book composed of doctrinal epistles, law books, history books, psalms, prophecies, etc. you shouldn't take anything figuratively unless there is reason to from the context. The Bible is not an Eastern Mystical book.
Read the Bible normally, just like you would any other law book, or personal correspondence, etc. with the difference being that you should recognize that it is the word of God, and without error.