Alofa Atu
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Paul was in training as a member of the Sanhedrin. It was required to be married, as per OT. Yet, even so, the scripture doesn't say directly whether Paul was married or not married at the beginning, only that he seemed to be not married by the end, but did make some very specific statements about the requirements of Bishops/Elders and Deacons:... How about St. Paul's? ...
1Ti_3:2 A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach;
1Ti 3:4 One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity;
1Ti 3:5 (For if a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God?)
1Ti 3:8 Likewise must the deacons be grave, not doubletongued, not given to much wine, not greedy of filthy lucre;
1Ti 3:11 Even so must their wives be grave, not slanderers, sober, faithful in all things.
1Ti 3:12 Let the deacons be the husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well.
Tit_1:6 If any be blameless, the husband of one wife, having faithful children not accused of riot or unruly.
1Ti 3:4 One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity;
1Ti 3:5 (For if a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God?)
1Ti 3:8 Likewise must the deacons be grave, not doubletongued, not given to much wine, not greedy of filthy lucre;
1Ti 3:11 Even so must their wives be grave, not slanderers, sober, faithful in all things.
1Ti 3:12 Let the deacons be the husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well.
Tit_1:6 If any be blameless, the husband of one wife, having faithful children not accused of riot or unruly.
In fact, this pattern is seen from the beginning with Adam. Adam was married, then having children, as his church. This goes for Abraham, Moses, David, etc. They were all married. Much more can be said on this, but simply consider the pattern that God gave in all of them.
Also, Paul was not a "Bishop" or "Deacon", but was a travelling Apostle. Paul also stated:
1Co_9:5 Have we not power to lead about a sister, a wife, as well as other apostles, and as the brethren of the Lord, and Cephas?