[John 10:22-31 NASB]
At that time the Feast of the Dedication took place at Jerusalem; it was winter, and Jesus was walking in the temple in the portico of Solomon. The Jews then gathered around Him, and were saying to Him, "How long will You keep us in suspense? If You are the Christ, tell us plainly." Jesus answered them, "I told you, and you do not believe; the works that I do in My Father's name, these testify of Me. "But you do not believe because you are not of My sheep. "My sheep hear My voice, and I know them, and they follow Me; and I give eternal life to them, and they will never perish; and no one will snatch them out of My hand. "My Father, who has given [them] to Me, is greater than all; and no one is able to snatch [them] out of the Father's hand. "I and the Father are one." The Jews picked up stones again to stone Him.
- They heard, but they did not believe.
- They did not believe BECAUSE they were not His sheep.
- His sheep were His sheep because the FATHER gave those sheep to Him.
- His sheep hears and believed and followed.
- Those "not His sheep" heard and picked up stones to kill him.
As for 'blaming' those that rejected the offer because they were not the sheep given by the Father to the Son ...
[John 3:16-21 NASB]
"For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life. "For God did not send the Son into the world to judge the world, but that the world might be saved through Him. "
He who believes in Him is not judged; he who does not believe has been judged already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. "This is the judgment, that the Light has come into the world, and
men loved the darkness rather than the Light, for their deeds were evil. "For
everyone who does evil hates the Light, and does not come to the Light for fear that his deeds will be exposed. "But he who practices the truth comes to the Light, so that
his deeds may be manifested as having been wrought in God."
- believe = not judged
- non believe = already judged
- men love darkness, do evil and hate the light (Jesus)
- men do not come to the light (Jesus)
- good deeds WROUGHT IN GOD ... God responsible for the deeds of those that come to the light (Jesus).
Paul agrees:
[Ephesians 2:8-10 NASB]
For by grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, [it is]
the gift of God; not as a result of works, so that no one may boast. For we
are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus
for good works, which God prepared beforehand so that we would walk in them.