Good Question
Since man is in such a deprived state and sin was passed down thru Adam to us. Thru our sinful nature,how are we able to make the decision to be saved without GOD helping us ? Are we that able to have something to do with our salvation ? Wouldn't that mean salvation isn't just up to GOD and that is our work and HIS GRACE combined ?
I have not read any of the posts in this thread because the Calvinism answers are both well known and false.
The correct and less known answers are found in scripture. There is no need to speculate.
Scripture says no one seeks God. Calvinism rewrites it to read no one seeks God at any time. Thus the scope of the statement is both assumed and taken to the maximum extent.
However, if we ask what is the least that might be meant, we get no one seeks God when they are sinning and everyone sins.
Scripture says by the sin of the one, the many were made sinners. Thus we are in a sinful state, i.e. separated from God and therefore spiritually dead, at conception. And because our eyes have been opened, in the same way Adam and Eve's eyes were opened, we are predisposed to sin. We have a wicked heart. But does this mean we never seek God nor trust in His promises? Nope
Notice right after God tells us of our wicked heart, He tells us Noah, wicked heart and all, found favor in His eyes. So the premise that the Fall caused total spiritual inability is false. Limited spiritual ability, that can be taken away is the actual condition brought about by the Fall. In Matthew 13 we learn of four types of individuals, some have total spiritual inability, the first soil, but the other three have some spiritual ability. In Matthew 23, we have unregenerate, fallen man of flesh "entering heaven." Thus yet another verse teaching fallen mean have limited spiritual ability, they are able to seek God. But they are not being compelled by irresistible grace because they are blocked by false teachers teaching false doctrine.
Next, because some of us are able and sometimes do seek God, does that work result in meriting or earning our salvation? Nope. Romans 9:16 says it does not depend upon the man that wants salvation or tries to earn salvation, i.e. a man that runs, but rather salvation depends upon God alone who has mercy upon whom He has mercy. BTW, this is yet another verse that teaches fallen men can will to be saved and try to earn salvation, thus once again demonstrating your premise is false.
Romans 4:4-5 provides the answer to your question. Only if God credits a person's faith as righteousness, will a person be saved. So our faith is not righteous, it is yet another worthless filthy rag, but if God credits it as righteousness, then it is through that faith we receive the grace of salvation, for we are saved by grace through faith. Salvation is all of God and our salvation does not depend on our faith, but in God's sovereign action to credit it, or not, as righteousness.