Thank you for proving my point.
I acknowledged that your argument COULD be made from other scriptures where the meaning could honestly be debated and discussed (and you made your argument from other scriptures). I was merely pointing out that the context surrounding 2 Peter 3:9 - which Charlie was referencing - does not support 2 Peter 3:9 being about that subject ... and you did not use the context of 2 Peter 3 to support your argument.
So what your trying to support is that God contradicts Himself.
The context of this verse tells us that
Peter is writing to believers throughout Pontus, Galatia, Cappadocia, Asia, and Bithynia and in that sense only applies to them but we can not read these verses in isolation. If we are to get the full council of God we must look at the whole council of God.
We know that God desires all people "to come to the knowledge of the truth" v:4 {1Ti_2:1-6} and to come into a saving relationship with Jesus the Christ. Notice who Paul says God wants to be saved, "all men" v:1, "all who are in authority" v:2, "all men to be saved" v:4, "a ransom for all" v:6.
Nevertheless, those of the C/R theological system deny what this verse is saying. Calvinists/Reformed deny that God really does want all to be saved.
Your going to claim that God wants those that are already saved to come to repentance. Not a biblical position but it seems to be yours.
So people that are already saved need to now repent so as to be saved. That is what you are claiming.