The liberals don't want any "honestly defined problems"!
Too easy to solve when the facts are known, and that would put JJ out of a job!!
Too easy to solve when the facts are known, and that would put JJ out of a job!!
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Well, you can't say Tookie Williams deserves the death penalty without someone calling you a racist, but, as with your example, there are still plenty of people who objectively comprehend the comments in their respective context without calling anyone a racist.Originally posted by Scott J:
Yet you can't criticize black American culture for promoting promiscuity without being called a racist... even though statistics prove it to be true.
Then the fault likely lies with your choice of friends, not with the race of your friends. I have several black friends who espouse no such cultural influence.Black friends have told me that their culture influences them to be more loose sexually.
Then the fault likely lies with your choice of friends, not with the race of your friends. I have several black friends who espouse no such cultural influence. </font>[/QUOTE]Maybe that's because your experience is limited.Originally posted by Johnv:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Black friends have told me that their culture influences them to be more loose sexually.
I grew up in NC and have had black friends my entire life.Originally posted by Filmproducer:
Black friends have told me that their culture influences them to be more loose sexually.
Hogwash... Just how much do you know of black culture?
Now? Only a couple. I live in a very rural part of Missouri and there are almost no black people around.Seems to me that you are basing your opinions on TV, and the the hip-hop music culture, which is not the epitome of black culture. BTW, how many "black" friends do you have?
All I can point to are my significant personal experiences and statistics. If you find them comical... no one can require you to be reasonable.Everyone, tries to say, my black friend said this, or I know a black person who said this. I find it comical.
Originally posted by Scott J:
Maybe that's because your experience is limited.
My friend is a high-mid manager for a major US bank, a Virginia Commonwealth U grad, and one of the most sincere, honest people I have ever met.
Do you really doubt that promiscuity is a bigger problem in the black community? Do you know the illegitimacy disparity?
There are no benefits in denying problems regardless of who is "offended". I love people regardless of their skin color.
Further, articles have been written about the pressure being put on black kids. If they behave morally and responsibly, they are treated as if they have conformed to "white" society.
Believe me, there are likely as many dishonest non-PC folks who are more than happy to racially generalize in the name of not being pc.The changes that need to be made won't be made as long as honest voices are shouted down by the PC.
I disagree and think that race relations are harmed and not helped by giving credibility to this level of sensitivity.Originally posted by Johnv:
However, that's not the point at hand. In regards to the OP, the comments weren't, imo, ourright racist, but they probably were a bit racially insensitive. It was nothing more than a poor choice of words. Nothing more than an "oops, sorry about that" is needed, and all parties should move on.
Originally posted by Johnv:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Scott J:
Maybe that's because your experience is limited.
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />My friend is a high-mid manager for a major US bank, a Virginia Commonwealth U grad, and one of the most sincere, honest people I have ever met.
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Do you really doubt that promiscuity is a bigger problem in the black community? Do you know the illegitimacy disparity?
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />There are no benefits in denying problems regardless of who is "offended". I love people regardless of their skin color.
Believe me, there are likely as many dishonest non-PC folks who are more than happy to racially generalize in the name of not being pc. </font>[/QUOTE]The statistics do generalize but they are stark... and made up of individual tragedies. What I have learned from the various people I have known gives me what I believe is insight into some of the causes for the statistics. It begins with "black culture" as a distinct American subculture.</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />The changes that need to be made won't be made as long as honest voices are shouted down by the PC.
See my last post to John. It cites statistics that cannot be denied. The rate of black illegitimacy is higher than the poverty rate. Further, the difference in black and white illegitimacy is greater than the difference in their poverty rates.Originally posted by Filmproducer:
no one can require you to be reasonable.
Ah, yes, of course I am not reasonable. I only like to look to all the facts. Again, you made an untrue assumption about black culture, which you cannot back up with evidence.
No. I have attended churches with black members however.Have you ever attended a "black" church?
It is also not what I said. The black churches may or may not have that kind of influence. They may or may not be a strong enough influence in the other direction.Why on earth would they pressure young woman to be loose morally? That is ridiculous.
Not true according to the statistics I cited nor the testimonies of people I have known over the past 30 years.Black woman are no more pressured, by their culture, to act immorally than are white woman.
It is a moral issue and morals are directly related to culture. Poor people are not necessarily more immoral than wealthy people.Again it is not an issue of culture, but other factors.
What club comment?As far as the club argument is concerned, the last time I checked clubbing is not limited to the black community, it transcends all races.
Agreed. Here, os SOCAL, race is (with esxceptions) much less of an issue than in many parts of the country.Originally posted by Scott J:
Absolutely not. California is not indicative of the whole country.
My broher lives is Seattle, and he'd hardly call Seattle diverse.On the whole, Seattle had less racial antagonism than Chicago or Atlanta.
All in California? My opinions have been derived by talking to black people from the south, northeast, midwest, and west coast... rural, suburban, and city.
Being poor does not by necessity make you immoral.
You can't ignore the correlation between one's cultural influences and standards and behavior John.
Only a sociologist would be capoable of determining if it is a beginning or a result. I don't pretent to know either way, to be honest. But I acknowlege that either is possible.It begins with "black culture" as a distinct American subculture.
I assumed club, because I have heard others make this same argument. Still does not hold water, because the same can be said for white men, or white women, for that matter. It is more of a subset American culture, than any type of racial culture.originally by Scott J
One very good Christian lady talked to me on this very subject. She hated that it was true but nonetheless said that it was. Others joked about wearing the same suit on Sunday morning that they wore out the night before to... well, women were involved.
My broher lives is Seattle, and he'd hardly call Seattle diverse.</font>[/QUOTE] It is but not with blacks. There are many asians and a sizeable hispanic community.Originally posted by Johnv:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />On the whole, Seattle had less racial antagonism than Chicago or Atlanta.
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />All in California? My opinions have been derived by talking to black people from the south, northeast, midwest, and west coast... rural, suburban, and city.
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Being poor does not by necessity make you immoral.
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />You can't ignore the correlation between one's cultural influences and standards and behavior John.
Only a sociologist would be capoable of determining if it is a beginning or a result. </font>[/QUOTE]Ultimately, yes... maybe.</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />It begins with "black culture" as a distinct American subculture.
Then I guess liberal academics that talk about the "black experience in America" are off base? Sociologists have defined black culture in America and its influences... you aren't seriously arguing that those distinctions do not exist are you?Originally posted by Filmproducer:
It begins with "black culture" as a distinct American subculture.
Please define "black culture". This is a highly subjective term and really does not relate to reality.
Yes and no. Prior to the immigration explosion around the turn of the 20th century, the diversity was much less. Most were protestant and from Britain or western Europe.Is there a distinct "white culture"? Many would argue that the white population is too large and diverse to be a culture unto its own.
Again, yes and no. Most black people in America are descendents of southern slaves. They share common cultural traits in the same way as southern whites do... but you will see regional distinctions.The same is true for the black community. Black Americans may only be 13% of the American population, but they are still as different and diverse as the white community.
Notably I didn't say that white individuals are more moral than black individuals nor did I say that it was anything innate in black people.I find it amusing that you seem to imply that the white population is morally "better" than the black community.
That contradicts the statistics here: http://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/PDF/SS/SS5302.pdf (note the analysis on pp 17-20 as well as the testimonies of every black person that has discussed the issue with me over the past 30 years.As I stated earlier, a black woman is no more pressured by some supposed "black culture", than a white woman is pressured by a "white culture".
Agreed.I suggest that you read some of the work by Kwame Anthony Appiah, a professor of Afro-American studies and philosophy at Harvard. In one of his essays, he aptly pointed out that "there is no reason to believe that race, in se, is morally relevant,
Again, race itself is benign. Cultural influences are not.and also no reason to suppose that races are like families in providing a sphere of ethical life that legitimately escapes the demand of a universalizing morality".(*)
Actually, the statistics simply say that blacks are more sexually active and earlier. They also say that black kids are more likely to be forced to have sex than white kids.Once again, the statistics, you presented, did not prove that black woman are pressured by a supposed "black culture".
Yes... and it has everything to do with cultural moral decay.Did you even stop to research and consider the fact that between 1980 and 1990 the illegitimate birth rate for white women rose nearly 100%, while the illegitimate birth rate for black women rose only by 12%?(**) This trend is still on the rise among white women.
No. There is a shift going on among the attitudes of young white people that have only a indirect link to "black culture".The disparity is still there, and no one is denying that, but are we to believe that this "black culture" in terms of morality is also affecting white women now?
Precisely. Who are the first people to socialize a child into a culture? The parents- then the community around them.It is a moral issue and morals are directly related to culture.
Are you serious? Morals are not directly related to culture. Morals are directly related to ones familial sphere and social upbringing to some extent.
Yes and I do. I didn't say there was nothing wrong with "white culture(s)"... but those problems are no reason to excuse or ignore a much worse problem in the black community.Would you be singing the same tune about a white culture and morals? I seriously doubt it.
I assumed club, because I have heard others make this same argument. Still does not hold water, because the same can be said for white men, or white women, for that matter. It is more of a subset American culture, than any type of racial culture.</font>[/QUOTE] I have never heard a white person say it of themselves or other whites... could happen but I have never heard it. Black men I have known acted as if it were commonplace... especially among black Baptists.What club comment?
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr /> originally by Scott J
One very good Christian lady talked to me on this very subject. She hated that it was true but nonetheless said that it was. Others joked about wearing the same suit on Sunday morning that they wore out the night before to... well, women were involved.
Your "visits" are a better basis for establishing a rule than the testimonies of the people I have known?I have visited many a church, both "black" and "white", and everything in between. I have never ever seen any type of church take a weak stance in regard to sexual sin, nor "wink" at it.
I agree. I don't agree with Jakes on every point of doctrine but this is exactly what is needed if 70% illegitimacy or 22% as the case may be is going to decline.I am going to direct you to one of the largest black churches, TD Jakes The Potter's House. Their youth program, for example, prides itself on upholding the moral virtue of teen girls. The program is called "The Kings Daughters". They also have a separate program for teen mothers called "Michael's Angels". I gave this example because it is a large majority black church, (28,000 families with a racial breakdown of 77% African-American, 13% Caucasian, 7% Hispanic, and 3% Other – comprised of 17 different nationalities). (***) I can guarantee that other black churches also take a strong stance against sexual immorality. If you have black friends in black churches that don't, then they need to find a new church.
Actually that is no longer true.Yes, and I can state studies that show that white teens are more likely to have an abortion than black teens, although overall more black women have abortions.
That would be interesting. One would have to redefine "responsible" to show that a 70% illegitimacy rate is better than 22%.Again it is not a question of a suspect moral culture. I can also cite studies that have shown that sexually promiscuous black teens are more sexually responsible that sexually promiscuous white teens.
IOW's, I have not proven anything you wanted to hear.Studies and statistics are subjective with multiple interpretations. You have not proven anything.
Then this black mother I spoke with was actually white?meant to be "black"- ie. rebellion, loose sexual attitudes, gang activity, etc.
I am returning to this comment because I find an interesting correlation in these terms you have used to describe what it "means to be black" and multiple studies of social perceptions and racial attitudes. Studies have proven that it is white people who define what it means to be black in these terms, not black people.
So if I don't agree with you I must be lying?I seriously doubt you have met any black person who would describe "blackness" in this way.
So basically you are asking to look at studies that will show that this problem and connected problems are illusions? They don't really exist and to the extent they do exist, it is the fault of white people and not the people making the choices as well as those who have direct influence on them?I invite you to look into the research of Dr. Martin Gilens, Donald Kinder and David Sears, and Kulinski, to name a few, I am sure you will be enlightened.