Zaac
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Do you actually read your won posts?
I read my own posts. And fully stand by what I wrote. The man has anger issues. It bleeds through the screen.
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Do you actually read your won posts?
I read my own posts. And fully stand by what I wrote. The man has anger issues. It bleeds through the screen.
So you do not see your posts as coming across caustic and angry?
For anyone watching, I want to point out some red flags from Carpro. These are things one should always look for when placing someone in a position of trust - I.e. a church position such as counselor, teacher, or entering a relationship, etc..
First, please note that he edited his post to take out where he denies acting abusive and was instead treating me like a "recalcitrant child," among other things. Here are the red flags exhibited thus far:
1. Devalues you
2. Claims you are stupid, dumb, etc., whether by direct or indirect name-calling
3. Does not treat you as a fellow adult, and places him/herself in the role of adult and you as the child
4. Blames others for his poor treatment of them
5. Does not listen or show interest in your opinion or feelings
6. Must be right and requires no disagreement, often reverting to "punishing" or "correcting to their side" via shaming
7. Tells you how to act
8. Does not respect your boundaries. For example, you do not like how they are acting and ask them to leave you alone for a while, but instead of leaving they may redouble their behavior
9. Blame you for how they are acting. "I wouldn't have, but you made me because you are stupid, worthless, etc.."
Etc.. Those are a lot of red flags in a short amount of time.
Generally, I'd expect the next step, after being called out, to be attempts at making himself the victim and threatening that my calling him out is causing him severe distress for which he needs help, which is an attempt to discredit you and draw others to their side.
There are many red flags, some of which are simply warnings and may not mean much of anything on their own, but when you start seeing them come together like this, there should be no question. RUN!
Rev didn't you say it's not helping if you keep poking it with a stick?
I read my own posts. And fully stand by what I wrote. The man has anger issues. It bleeds through the screen.
He did tell us all that at one time or another.
So, go for it Rev. He is difficult to ignore after a while! :smilewinkgrin:
(This is actually a bit more on topic here than it was in that thread, and demands to continue to be addressed).No, it doesn't. That's your spin.
Find another strawman. Spinning what I say is not going to work for you.