I think, Pastor Larry, you would agree that in cooperate worship there are many aspects of individual service which contributes to the worship. You have the choir, when the congregation is just an audience........ unless the words being sung reach inside them some way. You have the ushers which assist people in finding seats, attend to the offering, etc. Some will give an offering. Some people can sing...... and some may be so off key....that the best you could say is either their making a joyful noise or they must keep silent!?!?!!!!!!! What disturbing about a person saying quietly 'Thank you Jesus' when others are singing and their spirit identify with the sung words of praise.
Perhaps you're concerned about the potential of chaos and distraction. When we worship in church, do we just attend because its expected? Do we go through the rituals because its 'tradition'. Do we go for entertainment, and just to be controlled and led by leaders and some litergy? Do we go and invite the Spirit of God to move. Do we restrict God from his movement with in the body because of our tradition? I have been in some churches where there is so much protocol and appearances that one senses little of the presence of God. At such times the spirit within me has actually grieved because of the deadness of everyone's going through motions without bringing their gifts of worship.
As a pastor, are you distracted by the grief of an individual under conviction? How about the person who has just lost a partner and in the service remembrance of their soul-mate having been present on previous occasions brings them to quiet tears? Would you rather that people come with their baggage where they may find it lifted or prefer that they stay at home until they are ready to 'act' just like everyone else.
When Jesus rebuked the Pharisees, he does not tell them that they should have stopped doing what they were doing in worship and praise, but that they should also back up their public appearances with fruits in their private lives worthy of such appeal. He reminded them that what they do when motivated by public appearances, was for the praise of man..... but what counted more was the honoring of God and righteousness in the inward parts where no man sees but God.... Paul mentions that there were various gifts within the body, and we do not all have the same gifts. The body does not say to one part 'I have no need of you'. Those which are less attractive, may be those through whom the spirit ministers to another one's needs in the body. I have been grief stricken in church, but hear someone nearby say 'Praise the Lord' and felt the ministry to my own spirit as saying 'wake from the slumber of your personal grief and focus on ME, and the presence of me, that you already know is within, will lift your thoughts and your emotions towards peace and joy as you praise me.' The pslamist knew when he sang 'Thou has turned my mouring into gladness for thee!'
If the Spirit of God is directing the worship, it will be decently and in order. If worship is the 'acting' of the flesh, then the corperate is behaving as disorderly children.
Our heavenly Father has emotions, and made us with emotions. It is a natural process of worship to offer up to him our whole being, including our joy, our love, our praise, and sometimes even our grief and sadness. That such can be done and tempered with control without bridling the spirit is a precious experience in church. (ut oh...... now we get to the issues of experience.)