'I'm aware of this yet God's word says there is no man with out sin'
I agree 100% in that we have all 'sinned' in the past tense I John 1:10 (KJV). The hope and promise of II Peter 1 is that we do not have to sin in the future tense. If we had to sin or could not possible live without committing sin there would be no need for the hundreds of scriptural exhortations to do so.
'The really irritating thing about it for me is that sin is much quicker
than I am because once the thought of sin enters the mind it's too late I've already sinned'
There is a difference between temptation and sin. As long as temptation does not 'conceive' we have not sinned by being tempted. James 1:12-15 (KJV).
In Romans 7:15-17 Paul was talking about Saul, the old man under the law in the past tense “when ye were [past tense] in the flesh” (Romans 7:5), and “God be thanked, that ye were [past tense] the servants of sin” (Romans 6:17).
And every man that hath this hope in him purifieth himself, even as he is pure” ( I John 3:3) KJV.
But ye have not so learned Christ; If so be that ye have heard him, and have been taught by him, as the truth is in Jesus: That ye put off concerning the former conversation the old man, which is corrupt according to the deceitful lusts; And be renewed in the spirit of your mind; And that ye put on the new man, which after God is created in righteousness and true holiness. Wherefore putting away lying, speak every man truth with his neighbour: for we are members one of another. Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath: Neither give place to the devil (Ephesians 4:20-27) KJV.