Notice that the verse you quoted deals with repentance toward God and faith toward Jesus Christ.
But "Godly sorrow" only comes from a passage in 2Cor.7 which is written to Christians. The unsaved cannot have Godly sorrow. If we change your definition just a little you have one of the most accurate definitions of repentance yet posted.
Repentance concerns itself with God. It means to change one's mind and attitude toward God, to realize the fact that one has sinned against Him. It is the product of the Word of God. Repentance results in a change in one's actions.
--That is a good definition of what repentance is.
It is a change in one's mind and attitude toward God. Once the mind was rebellious in his attitude toward God. Then a change occurred (salvation). Now the mind is submissive in his attitude toward God. There has been a change--a 180 degree turn about. Once the sinner was bound to hell, now he is a saint bound to heaven. Once he was in a state of rebellion to God; now he is in a state of submission to God. That is repentance.
Please show me where in the Bible it states that the unsaved cannot have godly sorrow? How can one be saved without godly sorrow? A worldly sorrow will not lead to a "turning from sin as a lifestyle and turning to God in repentance and faith in Christ". Worldly sorrow is simply remorse. Anybody can have worldly sorrow, but only a responsive sinner, who has been convicted by the Holy Spirit of God of his sin and rebellion, can have godly sorrow which leads to biblical repentance
(Romans 10:17). Repentance is not simply a change of mind from unbelief to belief. The sinner must repent about his disobedience toward God and exercise faith in the death, burial, and resurrection of Christ for his sin.
"To repent literally means
to have a change of mind or spirit toward God and toward sin. It means to turn from your sins, earnestly, with all your heart, and trust in Jesus Christ to save you. You can see, then, how the man who believes in Christ repents and the man who repents believes in Christ. The jailer repented when he turned from sin to believe in the Lord Jesus Christ" (
John R. Rice,
What Must I Do to Be Saved?, 1940).
"Shallow preaching that does not grapple with the terrible fact of man's sinfulness and guilt, calling on 'all men everywhere to repent,' results in shallow conversions; and
so we have a myriad of glib-tongued professors today who give no evidence of regeneration whatever. Prating of salvation by grace, they manifest no grace in their lives. Loudly declaring they are justified by faith alone, they fail to remember that 'faith without works is dead'; and that justification by works before men is not to be ignored as though it were in contradiction to justification by faith before God. ...
To repent is to change one's attitude toward self, toward sin, toward God, toward Christ. ... So to face these tremendous facts is to change one's mind completely, so that the pleasure lover sees and confesses the folly of his empty life; the self-indulgent learns to hate the passions that express the corruption of his nature; the self-righteous sees himself a condemned sinner in the eyes of a holy God; the man who has been hiding from God seeks to find a hiding place in Him; the Christ-rejector realizes and owns his need of life and salvation" (
Harry Ironside,
Except Ye Repent, 1937).