Well I guess I am right back where I started.
No one knows weather creamation is right or wrong, I guess there is no right or wrong about it. I guess it is up to each individual as to their preferences of being buried or creamated. I was hoping to get more out of this than causing a rebellion. I think my husband was saved. Each individual knows in their own heart if they are saved or not. But we never really talked about it. Although he was brought up with both grandfathers as preachers, I guess no one ever knows. Even the best person in the world may not be saved. It is like when the young rich person asked Jesus :" What must I do to be saved?" and Jesus told him, "sell all you have and give to the poor and follow me'" with that the young man left heavy hearted, because he owned much. Than the response that Jesus had was "it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to get to Heaven" or thereabout is what was said in the Bible, so know I am right back where I started. John was an acoholic but he had the heart of gold. In the end, he was reunited with all his children before he passed on to eternity. I guess that is all that has to be said. :tear: I know it is too late but maybe he was sanctified through my belief in Christ and God. I believed in our love for each other and the love I had for God did not allow me to let go. So maybe my love for him and God helped him make it through even though he was creamated. I guess it is time I moved on. Love for everyone who responded. Diana