You're subjecting everyone else to your opinion. Both those terms are equally the same and in offense. Where is this "rule" except in the vast expanse between the lobes?
The opinion comes from SOCIETY, whose 'lobes' are somewhat larger than ours. Now, what if I were to write a certain 4-letter word commonly used for sexual intercourse, in an ordinary post? Would you consider me to be cussing? Betcha the moderators would, & would unceremoniously toss me from this board. That word existed long before we did, and was once a proper everyday word which meant 'to pierce or go through'. Don't believe it? Just look up the old names for the bird we call the kestrel.
But over the years, this word has become one of the most offensive words in American English, while we use the terms 'sex' and 'sexual intercourse' for the act by which every one of us came to be born.
(The use of the word 'sex' for 'sexual intercourse' didn't start until the 1920s.)
Now, I didn't make that rule...SOCIETY AS A WHOLE did.
Many of us know how passionate the feelings in Columbus, Ohio can run during the week before the annual Ohio State University-University of Michigan football game. During the 1970s, someone in Columbus made & displayed on his truck a large bumper sticker that read "F*** Michigan". He was busted by the cops for public vulgarity. In court, the prosecutor asked the judge to consider the true meaning of the offensive word, its arousal of prurient interest, and find the accused guilty. However, that judge made a laughing stock outta the prosecutor. He stated that, "taking the prosecution's request to consider the true meaning of the word, I must therefore look at the whole phrase. A pure dictionary meaning would be to copulate with the whole state of Michigan, which is, of course, absurd, and arouses humor without any logical prurient interest. Also, I cannot ignore the overall feeling of the population of Columbus days before an Ohio state-Michigan football game to be played in Columbus. Therefore, given the timing of the display of this phrase, and the absurdity of its meeting any dictionary definition criteria, I find the defendant, "----_----", NOT GUILTY of displaying vulgarity. However, I caution the defendant to use care and common sense in his public use of the word in question." This locally-famous court case caused several entrepeneurs to sell "M*** Fichigan" T-shirts & bumper stickers. They still do.
Again, SOCIETY determines what is "cussing".
Now, most non-Christians in the USA still believe that cussing is something Christians don't do, and would be very shocked to fine 'cusswords' in a modern Bible. That's why I believe that modern Bibles should NOT use certain words found in older versions, as it could cause some to 'stumble'.
Again, I am not condemning the older English versions for using certain words, but I would certainly condemn their use in newer versions, as "the times, they are a' changin' ".