2 Peter 3:9 The Lord is not slow about His promise, as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing for any to perish but for all to come to repentance.
Cals mis-interpret this verse often, saying it applies only to "the elect". That's silly. If that was what God meant, Peter woulda written it thusly.
Besides, if everyone was already predestinated with no chance to change one's status, then why have Bibles , preachers, or churches? Why did Jesus send His apostles & other followers out into the world with the "Great Commission" ?
The Cals seemta believe God created robots who either cannot resist salvation, or who can't come to Jesus. If He'd created robots, I believe He woulda made them incapable of the slightest sin.
But God DID predestinate certain people for special service to Him, such as Moses, David, Jeremiah, & the apostles.
And for one example of a man converted by preaching, a man converted by hearing God's word, & hearing it explained - the Ethiopian to whom Philip witnessed.
You may tiptoe thru the TULIP if you wish, even though it's mostly false.