I didn't say that & you know that. Let me ask you this...do the parents that do the dump & run, are they even members of the church?
IMHO this discussion of who should be the "prime educators" of children is getting way off of the OP's topic.
OTOH, I will relate this much & then get off my soap box.
From about the mid 1970's to about the mid 1980's, I ran a SS bus route for the church of which I was a member in the city of Clarksville, TN.
For those of you who are unfamiliar with Clarksville's location, it basically straddles the US Army's Fort Campbell.
During the period that I ran that bus route, I had untold numbers of Fort Campbell children ride that bus, but due to the very transient nature of military dependent families, most of those children never rode on the bus for more than 1 - 2 years at the most.
Granted, I'd venture to say that some of the parents who let their children ride the bus were just wanting to have a "baby sitting service," but we let them come any way. After all, these children were given the Word of God (which, BTW, does
not return void!!) both in SS and in the childrens' church.
I tried to make it a point to visit most of the childrens' parents after their child visited the bus a time or two. Believe me, they were some of the both sweetest and heart-wrenching visits I ever had!! You see, even the most hardened adult will listen to you if he/she sees that you have a genuine interest in his/her child. I could write a book about the way God blessed me through that particular type of bus ministry!
Was each and every child saved who rode on that bus? I don't know---nor do I know whether or not any of those parents came to have a real saving relationship with Jesus Christ. But this much I do know - Jesus invited children to come to Him (Mt. 19:13-14); in fact, Matthew 18 talks much about the importance of reaching children.
Yes, ideally, the parents ought to be the prime educators of their children, but OTOH, if they do
not teach them to love and serve Jesus, some one else needs to -- if not, the enemy will gladly teach them
the exact opposite!!!!
As promised, I now leave my soap box.