I think you should start a new thread with your question. Maybe shorten it to "What is love?"Originally posted by Helen:
If love is not a choice, what is it?
Seriously, I would like to see the responses.
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I think you should start a new thread with your question. Maybe shorten it to "What is love?"Originally posted by Helen:
If love is not a choice, what is it?
I think I did hear about a man who sought to have his 'marriage' annulled, though.IMO I think "love is a choice" is something people came up with to cover for their lack of heart-felt warmth toward their others. Love is from the heart, choice is from the mind. Many marriages down through the ages were "forced" at the end of a shotgun (not literally), and the couple went on to a life of marital love. I can give you names. Others didn't. The difference wasn't whether the relationship was forced or not, the difference was that special thing that happens between a man and a woman that can't be explained.
2Pe 3:9 The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance.Originally posted by J.D.:
The fact that God has chosen to redeem a definite number from among fallen man, and not all, is fully His prerogative, and it serves the same end as all of his doings.
You can come to no other conclusion. Either God infallibly executed His plan, or He failed.
Mt 12:36 But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.Originally posted by genesis12:
As to the OP, this is "the never-ending story." It will go on forever in these boards, never coming to resolution.
I'm not the one looking for answers, I have them.Originally posted by Calvibaptist:
Me4, I don't suppose you have an answer for your own question, do you? If God is so loving, why would He give every person He created a choice to go to hell in the first place? You ask a lot of questions, but can't provide any answers.
The only answer any of us can provide for why (notice how bolding something emphasizes it a lot better than quotation marks) God does anything is that it glorifies Him. That is His main purpose in all that He does. Most people on this board, both Calvinists and non-Calvinists recognize that. You, however, seem to have man's free choice as your main emphasis.
You're the one who asked the original question. If your not looking for answers, don't ask the question!Originally posted by Me4Him:
I'm not the one looking for answers, I have them.
That is a very adolescent view. It is very important that we believe the truth. No, we can't change the truth, but if we are in error, then we need to study and change our belief.What difference does it make to you/me/anyone what the scripture teach, pre trib, mid trib, post trib, mill/amill, Calvin/Arminian, we can't change one iota, the only options we have to allow the spirit to teach us the "TRUTH", a truth that give answers and recognizes "Errors".
I'm asking you to answer the question, closing your eyes and hoping it goes away because you don't like what the answer may be won't work.Originally posted by Calvibaptist:
Originally posted by Me4Him:
I'm not the one looking for answers, I have them.
You're the one who asked the original question. If your not looking for answers, don't ask the question!
That is a very adolescent view.What difference does it make to you/me/anyone what the scripture teach, pre trib, mid trib, post trib, mill/amill, Calvin/Arminian, we can't change one iota, the only options we have to allow the spirit to teach us the "TRUTH", a truth that give answers and recognizes "Errors".
That is a very adolescent view. It is very important that we believe the truth. No, we can't change the truth, but if we are in error, then we need to study and change our belief.
Sin.Originally posted by J.D.:
Can any of you name anything that has ever happened or will happen that God has not either done Himself or allowed to be done?
OK, ME4, I'll bite...Originally posted by Me4Him:
"IF" God is perfect and wants a "perfect world", then "WHY" didn't he just create it from the beginning, and forget about all the "CHOSE YE'S"????
1. God doesn't tell us why, so I will revert to His ultimate reason for doing anything - His glory.If God isn't willing for any to perish, then why did God gave man a "CHOICE" which condemns him???
Sin. </font>[/QUOTE]Jack, are you suggesting that God didn't allow sin? Is it something that caught Him by surprise? Was God galavanting around the universe one day and, suddenly, to His amazement, found out that Adam and Eve blew it?Originally posted by JackRUS:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by J.D.:
Can any of you name anything that has ever happened or will happen that God has not either done Himself or allowed to be done?
Sigh... THIS PASSAGE DOES NOT MEAN THAT WE ARE TO BE STUPID!!!! I has nothing to do with intellectual levels or amount of understanding. It says "whoever therefore shall humble himself as this little child." It is talking about attitude, not knowledge.Originally posted by Me4Him:
That is a very adolescent view.
Mt 18:4 Whosoever therefore shall humble himself as this little child, the same is greatest in the kingdom of heaven.
So, how come you are allowed to ignore all the Scripture about God's sovereignty?You don't get very far picking/chosing the scripture you "like" to believe and "ignore" the rest, you have to accept it even if you don't understand it at the time, later you will.
Then why should I read your posts? The last time I checked, God uses men to equip the saints. If we don't find any truth in books written about the Bible, do we find truth in sermons? Why would God give us pastors and teachers if the Spirit ONLY teaches from the Word?And you won't find the "TRUTH" in any of these books written "ABOUT" the Bible, the Spirit doesn't teach from those books.
I agree with you 100%. (Don't let that scare you!) Sin is definitely NOT good, even though God allowed it.Originally posted by Marcia:
I think God allowed sin because He is glorified in our weakness. Sin caused man to need salvation and it could only be through God's grace.
This is just my own opinion - we can't really know why God allowed Adam and Eve to sin -- but He knew they would.
At the same time, I would clarify that even though God is glorified through the sin in the Garden, it was not a good thing. God can turn what is meant for evil into good but that does not make the evil act okay (I say this because in Mormon theology they make the Fall sound like it was a good thing).
Sin. </font>[/QUOTE]Jack, are you suggesting that God didn't allow sin? Is it something that caught Him by surprise? Was God galavanting around the universe one day and, suddenly, to His amazement, found out that Adam and Eve blew it? </font>[/QUOTE]So then, you are now arguing that God allows sin in order for your Calvinist model to stand. Good grief.Originally posted by Calvibaptist:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JackRUS:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by J.D.:
Can any of you name anything that has ever happened or will happen that God has not either done Himself or allowed to be done?
JackRUS saidHe didn't make a rock bigger than he could lift up.
He didn't allow a sinner to be born more sinful than he could save.
1. "Rock bigger than he could lift" is not a valid response because the question was can you name anything that HAS HAPPENED or WILL HAPPEN that God either did not do or allow.*Sin.
Well I thought the point was made plain. The point is that GOD IS SOVEREIGN.Originally posted by Bluefalcon:
Actually my answer is disqualified because it doesn't properly fall under something that "has happened", so, the answer is......
NOTHING.
Now what was the point of the question again?