freeatlast
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My bad, there FAL. I thought you said the following.
I would add that bankruptcy is usually sin. Perhaps I did skip over your word..., "usually sin", but I did respond with..., "Please don't make a blanket statement that BankRuptcy is a sin across the board. It isn't." So may I ask what you mean by, usually? If an otherwise responsible person declares bankruptcy out of necessity would that be....
Let me share this with you freeatlast. My wife and I worked our entire life. We raised three kids and ended up with four grand kids of which we had to raise..., for 10 years. We sent our grand kids to Christian School for those 10 years, had to bail out two of our children on occasion (with one facing legal woes) and put the third child through College who graduated without owing a dime.
After all the smoke cleared and I retired..., WE WERE FORCED INTO BANKRUPTCY. Been there and done that. Am I necessary proud of what we had to do? Not really but for sure..., my wife and I are Free At Last from hounding bill collectors who were relentless. I suppose that after a review of our life one (perhaps you) could conclude that yes..., we didn't make the right choices in that we spent it all on the kids.
Out of the four grand kids..., we only hear from them when they want something. Three of them are still in High School. The eldest has one child with another on the way. Perhaps and her tattooed boy friend will get married some day but we'll just wait and see. My son, now 41 is finally getting his life straight; one daughter now 39, works for the State; the one who graduated from College, now 31, has a phobia about driving so we still have to take her every place she goes and refuses to seek help with her fears. It's amazing.
So, in answer to your question, "Do you approach the word of God the same way you did my post..."? No, the Word of God is infallible.
Sometimes, FAL, people, even including believers, find themselves in positions they just can't get out of. Hence, my statement in an earlier post about discovering just how strong your faith is after you Run Out Of Money. It often seems like those with the most faith have the most money..., or so that's their outward appearance.
You asked; "what you mean by, usually" that answer is in the post as well, but I will repeat it a little differently. First our bad judgment to get into debt and our hard times afterwards is not the fault of the lender. How would you like to have someone file against you and you be the loser because of their problems? Most debt comes from not being good stewards or coveting. There are some times such as unexpected medical bills, fires, and such that cannot be totally planned for, but those too should be paid even if it takes a life time.
We as Christians are to pay our debt. Not pay them until things get tough, but pay them all even if bankruptcy is used we still should to pay them as we have vowed a vow to pay. The bankruptcy should only be used to get some breathing room so as payment can be done at a pace we can live with, not so we can escape the debt we have made.
So if bankruptcy becomes necessary we should contact the creditor after the ruling and ask pay for any loses they have realized but at a rate that we can accomplish. This needs to be done very carefully as setting it up incorrectly can void the bankruptcy judgment and put you in deeper water.