I think we're saying the same thing with one major difference. I don't think it's permissible for a teacher to ask a question that is from an incorrect premise. Since Scripture cannot mean one thing to one and another to another rightly, don't ask "What does this mean to you?" Instead, ask "What do you think this is saying?" or "What do you think of this passage?" Very important distinction, although prima facie merely semantics. When people are allowed to have personal meaning, they have personal truth. Sorry....I know I'm in the minority here, but the Bible is God's Word and we aren't allowed to bend it one whit.