Marcia
Active Member
If something of that magnitude occurs, I will normally stop the requests and immediate began prayer for the family, going directly to them and, perhaps, asking those who so desire to stand around the family, hold hands or touch them on the shoulders as we pray. It shows them we are all focused on their needs at that moment and share (as best any Christian brethren can) the sorrow of their loss.
I think this is a good way to handle this and have seen this done as well. When someone clearly has a strong need and/or has experienced something devastating, stop and pray for them immediately. It is very caring and comforting for the person who is suffering.