Your response has zero Christian kindness or ethics in it. I now have a much clearer picture of your mentality.
Adultery is definitely abuse to the spouse who was cheated on.
Rape is certainly more than a woman regretting sleeping with a man.
You have no understanding of abuser psychology or how men in powerful authority positions can intimidate their victims. Some sex fiend pastors warn the women they exploit that if they reveal the ugly truth, it will ruin the pastor’s ministry and hundreds of people will lose their faith and go to hell.
Sometimes an abuse is so shocking, a victim can freeze emotionally and have trouble believing what happened. If they think they will be ridiculed or blamed for enticing a pastor, they can be slow to report it. Children especially can be mentally paralyzed and confused by abuse.
You simply hurl misogynist rhetoric at victimized women, belittling their suffering, so the patriarchal men can continue to denigrate women with their locker room humor.
You exemplify toxic masculinity.
