With all this talk about the "stumper" for Arminianism, it is true that that is a hard to answer question, without it being construed as still having something "good" innate in one who chooses right. However, "what causes you to differ from another" is not a biblical question in that repect (1 Cor.4:7 is talking about believers within the church, not believers vs. unbelievers). However, Calvinism is not without its holes or "Achille's Heel" as well.
•Takes "called vs. blinded/sheep vs. goats/God's seed(wheat) vs. Satan's seed(tares)/good ground vs. shallow, stony or thorny ground" to be eternal states.
So these "called" were never "blind"; they never did not hear His voice (as the sheep); they never did not believe in Him (as the "children of God" rather than the Children of Satan--John 8:42,44); they never did not yield fruit or previously turn away for not understanding, the cares if the world, or fear of persecution (and nobody who ever did those things would be saved)
Therefore, they were never in any real sense, lost sinners, but at the worst, could have been nothing more than something akin to backslidden saints (who simply didn't yet know they were saints). Basically, then, the Primitives are right, that the preaching of the Gospel is just feeding sheep rather than God's means of saving them (yet they are still wrong if it is true that all were once children of wrath who had to at some point get saved).
•consistently uses Romans 9:22,23 as describing Hell when it is discussing earthly show of power to people on earth.
Nobody has ever seen "hardened" Pharaoh or "blinded" Israel[ites] go to Hell!
Even in a framework of unconditional election, God could save ("unharden", "unblind") them after that purpose was fulfilled.
•Insists God really gives a "genuine" offer of life, to the non-elect (who thus can be "held responsible" for "freely rejecting it") when God never intended to save them (and intentionally blinded them) [single predestinationists, mainly]
Just like they have pointed out in the non-Calvinists when confrontd with "why does one believe and not the other", the Calvinists fudge around the issue, arguing an "effectual call" when they do begin hearing His voice, bearing fruit, etc. But that still doesn't answer the problem: were they ever blind or not? did they always hear His voice, or not? Other two points, they just reiterate their position. Eventually, you might get something like "you guys are just using reason". Most often, the conversation is shifted back to "why does one believe and not another" as the ultimate clincher for Calvinism.
The conclusion: this argument really doesn't have an earthly solution. (Both sides acknowledge "it's above us" at different times) We should just realize that Augustine of Hippo opened up a can of worms by going beyond the simple Gospel of "man is lost, yet Christ saves" into trying to deeply hypothesize the timeless mechanics of election. It's just another distraction for us to be arguing with each oter over, rather than just preaching the Gospel to the lost.
[ January 23, 2003, 02:11 AM: Message edited by: Eric B ]