In truth, the idea that you are totally in charge and come to Christ by your own free choice but then as soon as you do you are kept by the Holy Spirit no matter how you live and even if you decide to leave the faith
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Mt 25:41 Then shall he say also unto them on the left hand, Depart from me, ye cursed, into everlasting fire, prepared for the devil and his angels:
What a strange statement Dave, If it was not the will of God to save all of us. It is the word of God that comes to us first and Calvinistic teaching that equates that men are just dead lumps on the earth whom God is unconcerned about (except a few that he has decided to show special favor to, which of course includes you) is antichrist doctrine and should be abandoned.
Intellect, reason, and will and a consciousness of good and evil and right and wrong along with the law of God which is the moral equation of it all is what prepares any man to receive God's free salvation.Here is the application of my reasoning, and it does not include the Spirit of God until after the word of God, his law, has done it's work. This is concerning the tenth commandment, Thou shalt not covet.
I am not going to deal with a sound bite on this. See what it is that brings this man Paul to Christ and if you read it with understanding you will admit it was not the Spirit but it was something from God.
Rom 7:1 Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth?
2 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
3 So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
4 Wherefore, my brethren, ye also are become dead to the law by the body of Christ; that ye should be married to another, [even] to him who is raised from the dead, that we should bring forth fruit unto God.
5 For when we were in the flesh, the motions of sins, which were by the law, did work in our members to bring forth fruit unto death.
6 But
now (since they were saved by having Christ in them by the Spirit) we are delivered from the law, that being dead (separated from God) wherein we were held; that we should serve in newness of spirit, and not in the oldness of the letter.
I hope you can follow the logic that a perfect law is trying to be kept by imperfect men.
7 ¶ What shall we say then? Is the law sin? God forbid. Nay, I had not known sin, but by the law: for I had not known lust, except the law had said, Thou shalt not covet.
8 But sin, taking occasion by the commandment, wrought in me all manner of concupiscence. For
without the law sin was dead. (separated from Paul)
9 For I was alive without the law once: but when the commandment came, sin revived (revived means came alive), and I died.
10 And the commandment, which was ordained to life, I found to be unto death. (it was death to Paul but life to Jesus because he kept it perfectly and he is alive today)
11 For sin, taking occasion by the commandment, deceived me, and by it slew me.
12 Wherefore the law is holy, and the (10th) commandment holy, and just, and good.
13 Was then that which is good made death unto me? God forbid. But sin, that it might appear sin, working death in me by that which is good; that sin by the commandment might become exceeding sinful.
That is the purpose of the law according to Ga 3. It will convince us how sinful we are even if we are concerned about keeping the law of God.
14 ¶ For we know that the law is spiritual: but I am carnal, sold under sin.
15 For that which I do I allow not: for what I would, that do I not; but what I hate, that do I.
16 If then I do that which I would not, I consent unto the law that it is good.
17 Now then it is no more I that do it, but sin that dwelleth in me.
18 For I know that in me that is, in my flesh, dwelleth no good thing: for
to will is present with me; but how to perform that which is good I find not.
19 For the good that I would I do not: but the evil which I would not, that I do.
20 Now if I do that I would not, it is no more I that do it, but sin that dwelleth in me.
21 I find then a law, that, when I would do good, evil is present with me.
22 For I delight in the law of God after the inward man:
23 But I see another law in my members, warring against the law of my mind, and bringing me into captivity to the law of sin which is in my members.
24 O wretched man that I am! who shall deliver me from the body of this death?
25 I thank God through Jesus Christ our Lord. So then with the mind I myself serve the law of God; but with the flesh the law of sin.
Can't you see that Paul is not claiming he does not have a will but he does have a will in V 18. The will is in the mind and his desire to keep it sprang from his intellectual reasoning. He has a desire to keep the law but what hinders him is sin in his members, his body. Sin is a sovereign over all men through the weakness of the flesh.
Look at these things;
7:24 who shall deliver me from
the body of this death?
8:10 ¶ And if Christ be in you, t
he body is dead because of sin; but the Spirit is life because of righteousness.
11 But if the Spirit of him that raised up Jesus from the dead dwell in you,
he that raised up Christ from the dead shall also quicken your mortal bodies by his Spirit that dwelleth in you.
God has dealt with sin in the body and he says there is no more condemnation for them that be in Christ and who walk not after the flesh but after the Spirit. We as saved people must receive our power from the body of Christ through whom the Spirit now works and of whom we are functioning members.
Think on these things and understand that it is the word of God and the law of God that is the instruments of God to bring us to himself and God does not over ride our will..