Well then, we disagree about the necessity of baptism. In John 3 it says: "Unless a man be born again of water (baptism) and the Holy Spirit, he cannot enter the Kingdom of God". (Jesus's words) I can find no exception to this law and that Scripture seems pretty cut and dried to me. There is also the command from Christ to His Apostles to: " Go and teach all nations, baptizing them..." Now why would Jesus bring baptism into the mix if it wasn't necessary? Also, as regards Catholic teaching, it does not include the idea that we helped Jesus do anything - it was Him and Him alone who paid the price in full - got that?
Where does it say baptism in John 3:5. It doesn't. Baptism doesn't save.
In Matthew 28, one had to be made a disciple first.
1. Teach him.
2. Then he needed to be saved. Saved by faith and faith alone in Christ.
3. Then he would become a follower of Christ (taught some more), thus be a disciple.
4. Then he would be baptized.
5. Then he would be taught more ("teach him all things whatsoever I have commanded you")
Read the entire passage, not just what you want to read.
Here is the entire passage:
John 3:1 There was a man of the Pharisees, named Nicodemus, a ruler of the Jews:
2 The same came to Jesus by night, and said unto him, Rabbi, we know that thou art a teacher come from God: for no man can do these miracles that thou doest, except God be with him.
3 Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.
4 Nicodemus saith unto him, How can a man be born when he is old? can he enter the second time into his mother's womb, and be born?
5 Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God.
6 That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit.
7 Marvel not that I said unto thee, Ye must be born again.
Three times Jesus says to Nicodemus "You must be born again." It is important that one be born again, or he will never see the kingdom of God. He won't make it to heaven. So what does it mean?
When Jesus first said this to Nicodemus, he was entirely confused.
Nick said: "How can a man be born when he is old? can he enter the second time into his mother's womb, and be born?"
--It sounds like some sort of idea similar to reincarnation. Who knows what he was thinking.
Then Jesus replies:
John 3:5 Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God.
Since this is confusing, he goes on to explain:
John 3:6 That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit.
There are two kinds of birth: one of the flesh (your natural birth into this world), and a spiritual birth. Nicodemus had been born once, physically. Now he needed to be born a second time, spiritually. Two births are necessary: one physical, the other spiritual.
How is that possible? We know how the first is possible. What about the second?
John 3:5 Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God.
--This verse then holds the key. There are two elements that are necessary in the new birth. We all know that one of them is the Holy Spirit of God. Without the Holy Spirit one cannot be born again. But what does the water refer to?
--It does not refer to baptism. There is nothing in the passage to suggest that, and it runs contrary to the rest of scripture.
--Some say that it refers to the amniotic fluid of a woman to harmonize with the natural or physical birth. Possible, but I don 't think Nicodemus would have been thinking of amniotic fluid.
--Some put forth other theories that I can't remember off hand.
--But here is what I believe "water" refers to.
What is water used for most often? It is used for cleansing. It is used for washing.
They were not very far from the Temple, and Nicodemus could see the Jews go through the many ceremonial washings that they had to perform before entering.
But washing of water specifically refers to the Word of God.
Nicodemus was well acquainted with the OT.
Psalm 119:9 Wherewithal shall a young man cleanse his way? by taking heed thereto according to thy word.
--How does a man keep spiritually clean? He obeys the Word of God. It is the Word of God that cleanses.
What did Jesus say:
John 15:3 Now ye are clean through the word which I have spoken unto you.
--They were kept clean by His Word.
And James?
James 1:18 Of his own will
begat he us with the word of truth, that we should be a kind of firstfruits of his creatures.
--The word "begat" is directly related to being "born again." We are born again with the Word of truth.
Remember there are two and only two elements by which a person is born again: water (Word) and the Holy Spirit).
And Peter?
1 Peter 1:23 Being
born again, not of corruptible seed, but of incorruptible,
by the word of God, which liveth and abideth for ever.
--Here Peter makes it very clear. We are born again by the Word of God.
There are two and only two elements whereby a person is born again. One is the Holy Spirit. The other, Peter says, is the Word of God. Thus the "water" mentioned refers to the Word of God.
A person is born again when the Spirit of God works through the Word of God in order to bring that person to faith in Christ thus making him a new person in Christ. It is called regeneration, and has nothing to do with baptism.
To believe that baptism saves or washes away sin is a superstitious believe.
It is what the Hindus believe. Every year they baptize themselves into the dirty polluted waters of the Ganges River in India thinking that that "holy water" will wash away their sins. Your belief is just as superstitious as theirs.