People who have never heard of Christ perish and its not for rejecting Christ. They were already on their way to hell in the first place.
Isn't that what both DHK and ICON have already agreed?
I consider their considerable amount of words is over how to hold the following verses after John 3:18
19 And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil.
20 For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved.
If I am reading correctly, Icon is placing emphasis upon the fact that the people are condemned because of their deeds, and DHK is placing the condemnation as a result of unbelief. Both are correct. For the unbelief puts the evil deeds into play as demonstrating those who "loved darkness rather than light."
If I have retained Icon's thinking correctly, he is presenting his argument (as the scriptures would affirm) that the law is the demarcation of all that is right and correct. The unbelievers, because they embrace the darkness, abide as offending the law, and therefore are condemned.
If I have retained DHK's thinking correctly, he is presenting his argument (as the scriptures would affirm) that the matter of condemnation is settled not in the keeping of the law, for all have broken the law, but in belief and unbelief. That the condemnation, already predetermined to all, is detoured by belief.
Further, Icon would show that the law is important in evangelizing because it is the standard of God as the reason God condemns all. That none escape and (imo) where Icon is placing the emphasis of Nicodemus sensing the need to know more than what was presented in the frailty of the old covenant by seeking Christ's teaching. That Nicodemus knew no one could attain righteousness by the law, and sought for a more excellent way.
What DHK is showing is that in that discussion, Christ was evangelizing Nicodemus without mention of the law, because Nicodemus was already well educated in the law and there was no need to even mention the law. That immediately Christ went to the heart of the issue.
So, in effect, they are both coming at the topic from the same basic ground, but putting emphasis upon what is grass and weeds.
When fellowship with my Jewish friends, there is little need for me to present the law. They abundantly know more about the law, and all that was added to the law by various "rabies." I can't even begin to keep up.
What I tend to do is present the frailty of the law, and the grace of God in Christ as fulfilling the law. Not just as some "bridge" as the illustration would go, or some need that must be filled, but as the one in which new life is found. A whole life that is complete and reconciled to God.
My most sincere apologies to both Icon and DHK if I have not stated correctly or askew their position.
Along with accepting my offer of apology, please restate more precisely what I have mistaken as your thinking.