No, because I have been saved for 30 years and the first thing my Pastor told me was to be like the Bereans and study out anything he or anyone else taught or preached. I have been doing that for 30 years and my opinions on some things have changed. My views on hell and salvation have never wavered and are built upon the scriptures. I believe God said what He meant, and meant what he said about the perseverance of the saints, and about eternal punishment in hell. God is a God of love, and he is a God of judgement. The cross demonstrates both: God's love for the sinner, but God's hatred of sin. You can't build a doctrine, like I think you have, on just one of God's attributes. But if you have to pick on attribute of God that is the most important, it is that of Holiness. God is holy, thus He must punish sin. He did that at Calvary for those who believe, but for those who do not, they will die in their sins and suffer the punishment in their own soul and body for eternity.