1) Whether we are believing, a verb, accepting, a verb, or receiving, a verb, we are the one doing the action.
And those were the ones on whom seed was sown on good soil, and they hear the word and accept it and bear fruit, thirty, sixty, and a hundredfold.
No need to rewrite the verse to say those who have the word implanted and are cultivated and watered with irresistible grace, receive it....
Calvinism is a mistaken unbiblical doctrine refuted by scripture after scripture, including Mark 4:20.
I do wish folks would stop trying to insert a "word of refutation" when it really isn't necessary.
Take a hard look at Hebrews 12:6, does the word mean believe or receive (accept and not cast out). Note how well the idea of to take and make His own, fits the bill. Another idea conveyed by the word is to learn something taught, thus to receive and accept and welcome also indicates to learn it and make it your own.
Hebrews 12:
"4 You have not yet resisted to the point of shedding blood in your striving against sin; 5 and you have forgotten the exhortation which is addressed to you as sons,
“My son, do not regard lightly the discipline of the Lord,
Nor faint when you are reproved by Him;
6 For those whom the Lord loves He disciplines,
And He scourges every son whom He receives.”
7 It is for discipline that you endure; God deals with you as with sons; for what son is there whom his father does not discipline? 8 But if you are without discipline, of which all have become partakers, then you are illegitimate children and not sons."
This passage really has nothing to do with the OP of the BELIEVER.
However, because you pointed it out, lets make this obvious to the casual reader.
The passage is to the BELIEVER - not the lost.
Who GIVES the chosen to Christ? GOD - not the believer's free choice / will.
It is clear in Scriptures as Christ states that He RECEIVES from God ("all that the Father GIVES me...").
You also brought up Mark 4.
Try as some might to show how the dirt is cultivated by the dirt, on this thread (contrary to even rational thinking) a part of Mark 4 that seems to be very often ignored when discussing the parable are these words:
10 As soon as He was alone, His followers, along with the twelve, began asking Him about the parables. 11 And He was saying to them, “To you has been given the mystery of the kingdom of God, but those who are outside get everything in parables, 12 so that while seeing, they may see and not perceive, and while hearing, they may hear and not understand, otherwise they might return and be forgiven.”
Now, does it not seem directly purposed that God in Christ is showing how some are actually PREVENTED from forgiveness?
Is this not contrary to one of the great supporting beams of the free choice / will folks?
If God "wants everyone saved" then why is Christ very specific that some are left out of the message and only given short stories?
If God "wants all to be saved" would Christ who died to save "ALL" not prevent the understanding and perception of the heathen?
Perhaps those who accept (mind activity) can come to believe. For one can accept cause and effect situations.
However, belief is far more than rational acceptance.
Belief is seeing the foolishness of the Cross as the power of God.
Accept is seeing a cross and acknowledging people were crucified.
Belief is perception and understanding that can both seem irrationally out of perspective by one that mentally accepts the facts.