Always a challenge and traumatic experience, but also always needed if it comes to that point. As a pastor I always hated to have folks leave, but would visit with them and encourage them to do what was right for them/their family. MOST often they left for the wrong reasons and family paid the priceI am about to change churches.
Lot's soul was vexed daily in Sodom, but he never left until kicking and screaming. Too late for his wife and family.