Romans 9-11 is clearly addressing Israel.
You are in error as Romans nine: is concerned with God's demonstration of election not with a nation but with His loved ones.
Rom 9:11 Yet, before the twins were born or had done anything good or bad--in order that God's purpose in election might stand: See? God's purpose in election is being spoken of and what the subject is, or who he is, is really irelevant. The passage continues onto an Egyptian who is treated in a most shameful way, not my view but others, just to boost His Own Ego in a demonstration of His power over the most powerful. No other reason. God wanted to show off so He raised a man to power just to destroy him publicly and make a Name for Himself.
He goes on in this fashion by saying God hardens people, how shocking for any reason since it infringes our free will somewhat I think and then He says it doesn't make any difference what man wants man gets what is given even if there is a desire a man will not be saved by that desire but only by God's mercy.
Then, believe it or not, some upstart dares question God? "Why does He blame us for who resists His will?" And as I quoted earlier, rather than excuse Himself He slaps the one in the face and says "Who are you to talk back to me?"
What's that to do with Israel? But then if you are right He ain't been very nice to them has He webdog?
john.