Most Southern Baptists advocated prayer to begin a day in public school and before a football game, and a devotional at a PTA meeting. Are you claiming you were SBC-taught, yet taught contrary to these things?
At school we had a Bible reading and prayer at the start of the day. Where I grew up is was a very homogeneous culture, that is there were no religions in our area other than Christian. If there had been other religions and they had requested to read from their scriptures and pray I am not sure what the response would have been.
Now I live in an area that is very pluralistic. If Christians are allowed to pray at the beginning of the school day or before sporting events, than it is only logical, in our country, that each religious would have to be given the same consideration. Thus, in light of this, I feel it is best not to allow either scripture reading or prayer in school or before a sporting event.
More important than this, are you saying you were taught according to the 1963 Baptist Faith and Message, which contains the statement that the Bible "has God for its author... and truth, without any mixture of error, for its content," and now find "inerrancy" and those who push it something undesirable, or detrimental... or false?
The Baptist Faith and Message has become a litmus test for employment in some places. That makes it a creed. Baptist have always been against creeds. There is no place for a creed in Baptist circles, especially if it is to be used as a test of who is or is not a Christian. The BF&M has been edited and changed a number of times in the past and I assume will be in the future. What if it is changed in such a way that you disagree with it? Should you be punished because you do not agree with the latest [future] edition?
There are those who have been fired because they would not sign a paper concerning the BF&M ... not because they did not agree with the BF&M, but because they saw this as making it a creed and as Baptist they cannot in good faith sign a creed.
I agree with this stance.