Well one of us must be twisting the verse to our view. Perhaps both.
1) The first part of the verse says He saved us and called us. That is past tense, a done deal. Thus for you to say the verse does not address folks placed in Christ is a denial of the obvious.
2) The verse says the grace was given or granted us in Christ Jesus. Thus nothing was given or granted us before we were in Christ Jesus. Now God certainly established His purpose and redemption plan before the foundation of the world. We must agree on this because Jesus was foreknown as the Lamb of God before the foundation of the world. Now how can something be granted or given us before we receive it? God's purpose and plan is to grant or give salvation to everyone God puts in Christ, to everyone spiritually baptized into Him. This redemptive action is predestined according to God's purpose. Therefore the purpose and grace was given us (each and every person God puts in Christ) before time eternal. This view does not twist the verse, it presents a straightforward reading of the text. It does not have individuals created before creation and put in Christ before Christ completes His sacrifice as the Lamb of God. That is your view and to my mind, it is all twisted and out of sequence.
3) Next I do not agree that the verse says we were in Christ before creation. Again, the purpose and grace was predestined according to God's redemption plan for anyone and everyone God places in Christ. And again, I point to John 17:20-21 were future believes are not yet "in Us." Therefore the view that people were "in Christ" before creation is untenable.
4) Note verse 2 Timothy 2:1, the grace is in Christ Jesus. Therefore anyone placed in Christ receives the grace that is in Christ Jesus, which had been granted to anyone put in Christ before creation.
5) It is easy to charge others with bias, but I submit my view reflects the straight up reading of text. It is just different from the one you were taught or derived.