I have a question: exactly when did marriage become more than a civil institution? Where in the Bible is marriage defined as a religious institution?
I know many homosexual people, and there are several in my life, mostly as professional colleagues. Some I have met over the years. In my younger days I was very homophobic, and have said things for which I am ashamed. I have undergone a radical change since then. I have even hugged a homosexual man as he wept when his life partner fell victim to pneumonia after AIDS left his body defenseless against the virus.
These people have the same choices we have, and this is one that is theirs to make. In the end, they must stand alone and give account of what they have/have not done. As far as I am concerned, that is between them and The Almighty.
Some in this discussion have said that the Bible speaks against homosexuality. Those Passsages are found in the Old Testament. If they are going to take a hard-line approach with respect to what is said, are they also advocating the stoning of adulterers? What about cheeseburgers, cotton/poly blends, and the length of the tassels on our rainment? Remember: we cannot pick and choose those things in The Bible we are going to enforce.
I have absolutely no problems with civil unions for homosexual couples. This does not compromise the marriage vows I took, and as long as my church is not required to perform the ceremonies, I think it's really not my problem. America is fighting a war on terror, and a war in Iraq. These are the issues upon which we should focus.
Regards,
BiR