skypair,
I do not know who is saying infants that die are hell bound. It is the view of Hyper-Calvinism, but I have never eluded to that. I have stated my position on this, and if I am not mistaken, you agreed with me.
We (Me and you) must be careful. Self-Righteousness is always around. When a brother shares his view of the gospel, and we disagree with it, that doesn't mean we are right and they are wrong.
When I was born again, I thought I knew it all. I come to find out that wasn't the case. We are not born fully grown. Consider this:
1 Cor 3:2 I have fed you with milk, and not with meat: for hitherto ye were not able to bear it, neither yet now are ye able.
Paul obviously knew more that those at Corinth and he chose not to tell them. Simply because they were not willingly able to accept it.
When I first heard of Calvinism in any form, I acted as you do. Like I said, I am not a true Calvinist, but some of the points that are made are good. It may be meat to some and milk to others, but to me, some of it is very good.
In a past sermon, I asked the question "In the past 5 years, have you changed any of your beliefs"? You would have been amazed at the number of people replied "None".
My response to this is; "If you haven't changed any of your views in the past 5 years, it means one of two things. 1. You know everything already. 2. You haven't grown in the Word in the past 5 years."
This doesn't mean we should start changing our own doctrine. But when we study scripture, we must do it with an open and willing mind. If we don't, we will always be stuck on milk. None of us know it all. You have something to offer me and I am interested in what you have to say. Maybe, just maybe, someone else has something to offer you. You may disagree with the theology as a whole, as I have, but it doesn't mean its all wrong either.
As for your remarks:
And BS -- "Brown Shirts." Remember them? They enforced Hitler's dogma on all Germany. Go figure!
Come on now brother. It doesn't bother me, but this is a public forum. A lot of people who like reading your posts are going to read this one also. If you say thats what it truly was, then ok. But if it meant something else, it is much better to admit it and move on than to try and cover it up.
Last thing. You have a couple of times mentioned a marriage.
Have any of them taken "marriage vows?" Do they realize that marriage requires an UP FRONT COMMITMENT? So what about their salvation?
Are you aware of the marriage custom in the time period Christ was here teaching and preaching? Just because we have a custom today does not mean it was the way it was back then. Christ used examples to teach. He used things they could relate to. If often spoke of Him being the groom and us the bride.
In the custom during that day, The man would go to the father and bargain for the his future wife. When they came to an agreement on the price the man had to pay, the man would pay the price. At that point, the marriage covenant was established. The bridegroom then went to his father's house and prepared a place for his new bride. The bride was to always be on watch for the groom because she did not know when he was returning. When he did return for her, he would come with his wedding party. His coming would be proceeded by a loud shout. Etc...
Does any of this sound familiar? What role did the bride play? Our custom of marriage is a little different. If we try to apply what Christ was saying with our customs today, we may be in error.