Would you do it?

[Brother Bob]

You are dishonest. Not only turn a blind eye, but perpetuate and feed into others committing sins unto death, encouragie throwing others out of church for no biblical reason (support)
I have corrected you numerous times, it was a misunderstanding, yet you plant a different story. Goodbye

If you are talking to me, I am in the dark to what you are saying. If because I do not condone staying with the opposite sex in a bedroom, ruffles your feathers, then so be it.

BBob,

 

[Joe]

It is not just you and me, it is God's church that you are representing and you have no right to bring reproach upon the church. I have heard some say, "well, it don't offend me", who cares, if it brings reproach on the church, then you are doing wrong. We are to upbuild God's church, not tear it down. If I had members do that and it was brought before the church, they would be very fortunate if they kept their membership, or at least set back for a period of time.

BBob,

It applies to your post above

You are dishonest. Not only turn a blind eye, but perpetuate and feed into others committing sins unto death, encourage throwing others out of church for no biblical reason (support)

I have corrected you numerous times, it was a misunderstanding, (not reproach) yet you plant a different story. Goodbye

Edited to add: You're also in another thread being dishonest, a Mod called you on it. Then you called him a Liar right back.
I suggest you get on your knees. Your heart is unregenerative

 

[SaggyWoman]

Would Jesus have spent the night alone with Mary Magdalene in a cave or on a boat in the middle of the sea?

Mary Magdalene wouldn't have bothered getting in one of them there boats.

 

[Goldie]

Would Jesus have spent the night alone with Mary Magdalene in a cave or on a boat in the middle of the sea?

I will go alone though, no problem, as long as there's free food involved :tongue3:

 

[Brother Bob]

It applies to your post above

You are dishonest. Not only turn a blind eye, but perpetuate and feed into others committing sins unto death, encourage throwing others out of church for no biblical reason (support) false, IMO

I have corrected you numerous times, it was a misunderstanding, (not reproach) yet you plant a different story. Goodbye false, IMO You should not be saying its ok to sleep in a cabin with another person, who is not your spouse of the opposite sex. It is fool hearted.

Edited to add: You're also in another thread being dishonest, a Mod called you on it. Then you called him a Liar right back.
I suggest you get on your knees. Your heart is unregenerative

False, IMO
You are the one bearing false withness, saying that I am guilty of being dishonest. Do as you like, who cares?

Glad to see you follow me though and I can just guess who the Mod is. Now that SFIC and Linda is gone, you need someone else to condemn. Go for it.

Maybe you sit on that bicycle seat toooooooo long.

BBob,

 

[donnA]

It applies to your post above

You are dishonest. Not only turn a blind eye, but perpetuate and feed into others committing sins unto death, encourage throwing others out of church for no biblical reason (support)

I have corrected you numerous times, it was a misunderstanding, (not reproach) yet you plant a different story. Goodbye

Edited to add: You're also in another thread being dishonest, a Mod called you on it. Then you called him a Liar right back.
I suggest you get on your knees. Your heart is unregenerative

your the one who said a gossiper should be thrown out of church, no biblical evidence for that is there?

 

[Brother Bob]

Now thats what I call being hypocrital.................:laugh:

Bicycle seat ????? It will do it every time.

Joe;
It's not hard to figure out. You ignored the verses about busybodies and gossips. These people do not deserve our attention, nor do they deserve to control us with their wild imaginations.

You can decide for yourself what is right

 

[donnA]

Your heart is unregenerative

this in actuality is questioning his salvation.

 

[I Am Blessed 24]

Boys, play nice!

Calling someone a liar OR dishonest is not allowed on the BB. Neither is questioning someone's salvation.

If you can't play nice, take your bat and ball and go home or a 'time out' may be in order.

 

[Joe]

your the one who said a gossiper should be thrown out of church, no biblical evidence for that is there?

No I didn't.
Just like I didn't do what you accused me of in post #40 where I corrected you. Please stop now.

Even gossips and talebearers, imo, should be given the opportunity to repent though they bug me. If they refuse, then disfellowship them.

Even gossips and talebearers, imo, should be given the opportunity to repent though they bug me. If they refuse, then disfellowship them.

Donna when you see a problem on the BB, it's best not to jump in to perpetuate it making it worse. You're right on schedule being a busybody with your accusations. You feel no shame when you are corrected. Instead of apologizing to the person you discredited, you continue on in attempts to discredit them. Not good.

 

[Joe]

When this situation came up with me, I told our Pastor that only one explanation would be given from me the whole time I am a member of the church. So I asked if wanted it now or the next time someone accuses me of adultery. He wanted it then because I was technically the head of the Teen Dept. So I took my sister to him, we explained then we thought that would suffice. Yet the Lady only conjured up some worse story that my hand was too far down her back (placed you know where) while we danced. So what are you gonna do?

Then he said he was accused of flirting with a church member a few years prior. Not sure if it was by this same lady or not, not my business really.

It's Satan's first priority to break up the church imho. He didn't kick me out of the teen dept nor did he ruin Pastors ministry. The church is still going strong. Our Pastor doesn't allow idle talk any more, as best he can.

Amy, the lady was asked by Pastor spir of the moment, to go into the office. She arrived unaware.

My sister pinned her down, Pastor allowed it (almost seeming to enjoy it / be relieved). Sis told her it was none of her business how we relate, what our relationship is, etc...She usually ignores that stuff so it surprised me she began talking. Our Pastor is a very patient, caring and understanding man. Definately a Christian.

This lady was the head of the teen dept, but was recently demoted due to a problem so that was brought up as a possible motive. Though I don't know what that had to do w/me, I was only temporary anyway. And I offered to let her help me.

It was partially my fault for allowing my sister to hang on me, and sit on my lap at the restaurant but we were having fun horsing around. In this area, or maybe in California in general, pif/when someone openly repeats private info of this nature, it just makes them look bad. Most here don't listen to it, and stay away from them knowing they could be their next target. It's not politically correct.

If it was true, then you go to the person about it (christian or not)

I never heard of a church being affected by an accusation of this nature in our area, seems so old school. But our area may differ from Brother Bob's area and others here.
Friend of Spurgeon, I agree it's generally a good rule. I follow it and expect our teen to also.

My point was we should be balanced, take care of the gossips and talebearers also, which is quite clear scripturally. Heeding to their wickedness by making accusations regarding a grey area. Just my opinion.

Your reply...

It is not just you and me, it is God's church that you are representing and you have no right to bring reproach upon the church. I have heard some say, "well, it don't offend me", who cares, if it brings reproach on the church, then you are doing wrong. We are to upbuild God's church, not tear it down. If I had members do that and it was brought before the church, they would be very fortunate if they kept their membership, or at least set back for a period of time.

BBob,

You link my actions it to being "reproach" though it was a misunderstanding. I have stated this a few times, and the lady was already demoted in the church. They know what she is. Pastor told me she was a talebearer and gossip, probably why he created the situation he did, so she would be confronted about it.
Then you pretty much tell me (see post above) that I would be lucky to be a member at your church if I did this, because I would probably have my church membership revoked. Yet no sin was identified.
Yet you cannot identify a sin, and turn a blind eye to the gossip and talebearing. Probably because you identify so heavily with it, and latch onto it saying you would listen to the known talebearers and kick the victim out of church. That is being dishonest. Listening to talebearing and disciplining not the talebearer but the other person. Again, that is being dishonest.

Now hopefully, there is no misunderstandings so we can move forward. If you must reply, please be HONEST and read the posts above this time. I have included them for your benefit. Then no correction will be needed and we can let it be. Thank you

 

[I Am Blessed 24]

I am closing this thread for review by the Administrative Counsel.

Thanks,
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