Blammo, you've described a phenomenon that I struggle to understand - the seeming inability of some to understand calvinist doctrine. For me, although my conversion to full Calvinism happened over a long span of time and in a multitude of small increments, nevertheless, for me the Calvinist system always made perfect sense. It was only my determination to find fault in it that I did not convert sooner, and the only reason I was determined to find fault in it to begin with was because I had so much time, energy, and yes, money, invested in the "arminian" system. The calvinistic system has the answers - the arminian system does not. The only question that can not be answered by any man is "why would God choose to save some but not others?" Well, now that I think about it, the calvinist system answers that also, because we understand the question to have a wrong premise. The real question that we should be asking is "Why does God save ANYONE, seeing the no one deserves the mercy of God?"Blammo said:It's not prejudice, I base my views on my conversations with calvinists on this board. Before I came to Baptist Board, I knew very little about calvinism. I have been trying to learn more, because I find myself in agreement with calvinists to a point. I, however, would not ever want to be associated with a man who believes in infant baptism, burning heriticks to death, and other such garbage.
I agree, "God takes no pleasure in the death of the wicked". So, if I were a calvinist, I would wonder why God doesn't give everyone the ability to hear, understand, and believe the gospel.
Romans 10:21 But to Israel he saith, All day long I have stretched forth my hands unto a disobedient and gainsaying people.
Luke 13:34 O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, which killest the prophets, and stonest them that are sent unto thee; how often would I have gathered thy children together, as a hen doth gather her brood under her wings, and ye would not!
All references to God's commandments and man's refusal to obey them are proof of the first letter in the infamous TULIP. "Ye would not" is descriptive of the fallen nature of man, and therefore, of Israel also. The Lord would have gathered them, and His tears are shown to prove the reality of that. But you must understand that salvation under the law was CONDITIONED on man's obedient response. And IF man had responded obediently, HE WOULD HAVE BEEN SAVED. The fact that God knew, ye, FOREKNEW, that man would not, ye, COULD NOT, obey the law does not in any way make His offer of salvation under the law any less sincere.
Now, that God has no pleasure in the death of the wicked, is self-evident. Calvinism does not and has never painted the picture of a sadistic God, reveling in the suffering of the lost. That is a caricature painted by opponents of Calvinism. However, the punishment of the lost is a glorification of the justice of God, and it serves his righteous purposes. You have to remember that NOT ONE person will be in Hell undeservedly.
As for your issue with the man John Calvin, I wonder if you are sincere in your statements. This is nothing but a red herring - you can't possibly believe that we Baptists that are called "calvinists" associate ourselves with the MAN John Calvin or his non-soteriological theology? We do not believe in a church ruled by a Presbytery. We do not believe in magistrial powers for the church or its officers. We do not believe in a covenental relationship confered on children by baptism. Why would you make such an accusation if you are interested in a serious conversation on the matter?
Keep studying the issue. The resources available today are innumerable. You could spend years just reading the books and articles available on monergism.com alone. And that's just the tip of the ole ice burg.