I do not have animosity toward any of you guys! It's the doctrine that I dislike. I love you. :flower:
I have asked this question many times on the BB and never gotten a straight answer.
If you were discussing Calvinism with someone and an unbeliever overheard you and asked about election, would you tell them that not everybody is elected? And that only those who are elected or chosen for salvation can come to Jesus? Would you tell them "you may not be chosen"? I was chosen but you may not be.
If that would be hard for you to do, then you should re-evaluate your belief in Calvinism.
Nope - wouldn't be hard for me to do and I could show them the Scripture to support it as well. I'd go on to explain that I have no idea who is elect and who isn't so I will act as if everyone is elect and God wants to use me to bring them the Gospel.