I just stopped paying my dues. Took them two years to stop sending me calendars.I was a Mason for 35 years (32 degree) and active in Scottish Rite. The first thing that got my attention was a part in the 18th (Rose Croix) "We do not assert that He (referring to Jesus Christ) was God, neither do we deny it, that is a question to be settled else where" Well I do assert that he was, is, and will forever be 100% God. I asked to have my name expunged from all record and was granted that request. There were many of my Christian Brothers in the Masons and most still remain. This did not change my relationship outside of the lodge with any of them.
But this is what I mean by it being secular. I wouldn't expect them to affirm Jesus is God, and at the same time I really didn't expect them to deny it.
When I finished the 18th degree I asked one of the guys about that remark. Come to find out he was Jewish. Anyway, his response was like nailing jello to a wall

Oh...here's one that concerned me as well. They had one about judging impartially. In this one, all the actors were judges (or so I was told)..... and I met a DA and the Adjutant General at that degree.
Ahhhh.....fun times with the Freemasons, killing goats and playing with tarot cards.