If a group of kids start heading out on the lake to play on thin ice and I warn them not to and they give me the finger and go on out but I grab a couple of them by the collar and drag them up the bank - when the rest fall in, am I responsible for that? You are the one making God responsible for that which He is not. What's next? Why didn't he grab all of them? Why did he put the lake there? Why didn't he make the ice thicker? There is no limit to your making God unfair either.
If you say that God instead posted clear signs on the edge of the lake and you either heed the warning or not and it's on you; there is still the problem of why did God put the lake there, make the ice thin, make us with a nature that playing on the ice is fun and so on. Then you have to move logically to where those who heeded the warning were better in virtue or intelligence or maybe just more timid but you could blame God for that too I guess. You are putting a bunch of supposed contradictions and inconsistencies on Calvinism that your system doesn't deal with either. The only thing you have is this autonomous free will which in reality does not exist. The default argument is that you have to have the power of contrary choice, which is bogus because the reason you did not make a contrary choice is because you didn't want to. As a human, you do what you most want to do, according to your strongest inclination. That is where the Holy Spirit works and you are not in as much control as you think. Sorry. The Bible clearly teaches that the worst thing that can happen to us short of death is for us to be left to our own free will - to work out all our inclinations and desires to their conclusion.
Dave you are the one that keeps saying that if the Holy Spirit does not cause you to believe then you can not do so. You are just avoiding the logical outcome of your view. If one can only believe if the HS causes them to do so then any that the HS does not cause to believe cannot do so. I have posted clear text that shows you that God does influence people and yet you keep saying that is not enough, You want God to take them by the hand and drag them to salvation. Your view is not biblical but it does fit with your Calvinist philosophy.
I have told you a number of times that man does not have an autonomous free will, no one does. Dave can you flap your arms an fly? But God, who is sovereign, has given man a free will. Calvinists just do not like the idea that God would actually allow man to make real choices. How you can continue to ignore scripture is amazing. Your view muddies the character of God.
So what is free will in the bible and in life:
Free will is the capacity for agents to choose between different possible courses of action (aka choosing “otherwise”). This does not require the person to be able to choose anything, nor does it require the absence of other influencing factors. It only requires the ability for a person confronted with a decision to be able to choose from among one or more possible options.
Notice what it says here in this text:
Pe 1:20 He {Jesus} was destined before the foundation of the world, but was revealed at the end of the ages for your sake.
1Pe 1:21
Through him you have come to trust in God, who raised him from the dead and gave him glory,
so that your faith and hope are set on God.
Rom 10:17 So then
faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.
This from Webster:
Evangelical, justifying, or saving faith, is
the assent of the mind to the truth of divine revelation, on the authority of God's testimony, accompanied with a cordial assent of the will or approbation of the heart; an entire confidence or trust in God's character and declarations, and in the character and doctrines of Christ, with an unreserved surrender of the will to his guidance, and dependence on his merits for salvation.
In other words, that firm belief of God's testimony, and of the truth of the gospel, which influences the will, and leads to an entire reliance on Christ for salvation.
Man has a God given free will and will be held responsible for the choices they make. Why is that so hard for the Calvinist to see? Is it a case of being willfully blind?
You along with all the other Calvinists on BB keep saying that man only wants to reject God so you must think the HS just inspired the scriptures as an exercise in futility. Why tell man to trust in Christ if they were unable to do so. Dave you are following a pagan philosophy that Augustine brought into the church.
You like to read so do your own investigation of the history of your theology. If after you do an honest search you want to hold to Gnostic and pagan teachings then that is up to you.