Your definition of "sovereign" is skewed. God in his sovereignty allows for free will. He is not dependent upon man but knows in his omniscience what man will choose. That doesn't mean he affects or effects the choice of man. It is still man's choice.
It is your understanding of God's sovereignty that is skewed.
Go To Isaiah chapters 40-48 especially. His sovereignty is laid out very well there.
40:21-23
: Do you not know?
Have you not heard?
Has it not been told you from the beginning?
Have you not understood since the earth was founded?
He sits enthroned above the circle of the earth,
and its people are like grasshoppers.
He stretches out the heavens like a canopy,
and spreads them out like a tent to live in.
He brings princes to naught
and reduces the rulers of this world to nothing.
42:8 : I am the Lord; that is my name!
I will not give my glory to another or my praise to idols.
43:7,8 : everyone who is called by my name,
who I created for my glory,
whom I formed and made.
Lead out those who have eyes but are blind,
who have ears but are deaf.
10c-11 : Before me no god was formed,
nor will there be one after me.
I, even I, am the Lord,
and apart from me
there is no savior.
13: No one can deliver out of my hand.
When I act, who can reverse it?
44:6 : I am the first and the last;
apart from me there is no God.
45:5 : I am the Lord, and there is no other;
apart from me there is no God.
verse 7 : I form the light and creat darkness
I bring prosperity and create disaster;
I, the Lord, do all these things.
verse 9: woe to him who quarrels with his Maker.
46:5: To whom will you compare me
or count me equal?
To whom will you liken me
that we may be compared?
verses 9,10 : I am God, and there is no other;
I am God, and there is none like me.I make known the end from the beginning,
In am God, and there is none like me.
I make known the end from the beginning,
from ancient times, what is still to come.
I say: My purpose will stand,
and I will do all that I please.
11b : What I have said, that will I bring about;
what I have planed, that will I do.
48:11: For my own sake, I do this.
How can I I let myself be defamed?
I will not yield my glory to another.
11: I am the first and the last.
Man is not sovereign and in charge of his life. God rules over everything and everyone. There is no such doctrine as free-will taught in the Scripture. It is a concoction, an invention from the mind of sinful men.
Man chooses his own destination, not God.
That is an absurdity that any wordling would say.
Have you never heard of predestination? It is God who predestines --not man.
God shows mercy on all.
His mercy is spoken of over and over in the entire Bible but is rejected by the Calvinist because of a few verses taken out of context in a couple of places.
God delights in mercy. However the Word of God explicitly tells us in Romans 9 :I will have mercy on whom I have mercy,
and I will have compassion on whom I will have compassion.
: Therefore God has mercy on whom he wants to have mercy, and he hardens whom he wants to harden.
The Lord bears with great patience the objects of his wrath --prepared for destruction and He makes the riches of His glory known to the objects of his mercy, whom he prepared in advance for glory.
So clearly the Lord mercies some and not each and every person --past, present, and future.
This monergistic position makes God the author of evil and absolves man of any responsibility to God. Go ahead and sin. Eat, drink, and be merry. It is God's fault. God is responsible. God did it. This is monergism--voiding man of any responsibility by taking away his power to choose and giving it all to God.
Your entire paragraph is a complete lie and you very well know it. Yet you persist in your old ways. Why do you not tell the truth? Telling the truth is characteristic of Christians.