As I said, the problem lies within your own camp of "Calvinist". The more a Calvinist attempts to defend TULIP the more they slip into the ultimate conclusions TULIP must lead them into, and then the arguing and fighting begins.
Where do you think these arguments come from? Do you think the non Calvinist just make stuff up? These protest come from direct quotes, responses from confessing Calvinist, to questions or comments given from non Calvinist.
I began a thread once on the question of "Divine Enablement" which I created with responses given directly from a Calvinist here who it appears many other Calvinist believe is a "good" defender of Calvinism. He gets a lot of support with atta boys and :thumbs:
I asked the board of Calvinist if they all agreed with his position on Divine Enablement. Only one responded that they disagreed with him, but at the same time acted like it was no big deal. I believe the issue of Divine Enablement is a big deal. Especially when the proof text given was Matt 13, which again would be declaring No belief in Calvinism = No sheep.
http://www.baptistboard.com/showpost.php?p=2173232&postcount=115
Nobody calls him "hyper", in fact he calls another hyper. We have another Calvinist poster here who declares God hates the non-elect and many other Calvinist on here agree with him.
We have a Calvinist on here who declares no belief in TULIP = No Sheep. When I made a comment as to is the Holy Spirit failing to teach Christians TULIP, his answer was No and gave John 10 as the reason.
http://www.baptistboard.com/showpost.php?p=2171467&postcount=28
So I don't know what the answer is brother, it seems Calvinist are all over the place on issues and there is a lot of infighting. It seems to me Calvinism has added no value to the Christian walk. It's like it is a rabbit trail to get Christians divided and off the business Jesus Christ left us to do.