The following is a "Classical" statement/argument made by Calvinist.
The doctrine that is really repugnant to us all is the absolute depravity and deadness of man. Every fiber of man's being, inclination of the heart, thought, deed, & word has been tainted and tinted by the deadness and darkness of the sin in the heart. This includes the so-called "free will of man." It has "freedom," but this "freedom" is only in concert with its nature.
Ro 7:18 For I know that in me (that is, in my flesh,) dwelleth no good thing:
for to "WILL" is present with me; but how to perform that which is good I find not.
Did you notice the different between the "WILL" and the "FLESH"??
Ro 7:22 For I delight in the law of God after the inward man:
23 But I see another law in my members, warring against the law of my mind, and bringing me into captivity to the law of sin which is in my members.
"Total depravity" doesn't line up with scripture when applied to the "Heart/Conscience" (WILL) of man,
We're "BORN" with the knowledge of "GOOD" and "Evil".
Ge 3:5 For God doth know that in the day ye eat thereof, then your eyes shall be opened,
and ye shall be as gods, knowing good and evil.
Paul recognized the "Difference" between the "depravity" of the "Flesh and Mind".
We would love to believe we have freedom to come to God when we want; but in actuality we are the "living dead" not even knowing we are dead spiritually.
Calvin "premise" that none "Seek God" (without God calling/saving them) clearly is faults.
Mt 7:21 Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven.
22 Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works?
23 And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.
The "Spirit's" function is to help us "purge our Conscience" of evil,...
IF... we have the "desire" to "serve/worship God" according to "His instructions".
Heb 9:14 How much more shall the blood of Christ, who through the eternal Spirit offered himself without spot to God,
purge your conscience from dead works to serve the living God?
The one "Common Characteristic" of people all over the world is to "Serve/worship" some type of God.
Clearly the "depravity" is not in the "WILL TO WORSHIP", but in the ability to "Abstain" from sin,
Our "Conscience" knows "Right from Wrong", even if we've never heard the Gospel, and we have a "sovereign right" to "CHOSE" between "Right/Wrong", and for which we are Judged.
The "SEED" must be planted in "GOOD EARTH" before it will grow.
Body=Dust of the earth, ragardless of how much "SONLIGHT" or "WATER" (SPIRIT) the seed gets, unless it is planted in "GOOD EARTH", it won't grow.
and that is "MAN'S" contribution (Worship/Service) to God.
Ro 6:16 Know ye not, that to whom
ye yield yourselves servants to obey, his servants ye are to whom ye obey;
whether of sin unto death, or of obedience unto righteousness?