How else does God give mercy? There is no question begging. God shows mercy. People in hell have not received mercy.
You've never showed mercy to someone who turned up their nose to you in rebellion? I have.
Just because someone has the ability to reject the mercy I offer doesn't mean I never offered it. Even you believe the gospel appeal is for all man, right? Well, isn't that merciful of God to offer reconciliation to those who don't deserve it? Just because they rebel against it and refuse to accept his appeal doesn't mean he didn't genuinely and sufficiently offer it.
not my argument at all. Don't try to change it like you did in the other thread. It's a red herring.
Ok, you are confusing two different points. You said, "Man rejecting God doesn't keep God from the power to show mercy to him. If that were true, then God wouldn't be all powerful." So, you are arguing that because God, being all powerful, COULD have shown mercy irresistibly and didn't that proves he doesn't desire all men to be saved, but that is QUESTION BEGGING, because it presumes it is NOT God's will for man to make a contra-causual free morally accountable decision. Even you acknowledge that God allows man to make a 'choice.' {Its not really their 'choice' in your system because its really God choice and they are merely reacting to the preordained secondary causes as they were made to do, but nevertheless you agree there is a CHOICE made by the agent.} You also agree that God's appeal to be reconcile IS universal in that the gospel is sent to all people.
So, you agree that men must make a choice in response to God's appeal to be reconciled. And you believe they are doing so in accordance with their own will (i.e. what they want to do - never mind that what they want is what God preordained and determined them to want). So, if this is the case then clearly God has expressed His desire for lost men to choose to repent and be saved and that He desire for all of them to do so. Thus, the reason some do NOT is NOT because God DOESN'T WANT them to be SAVED, but BECAUSE they CHOSE not to be saved.
They have NO EXCUSE for making the choice they made, like 'God didn't choose me.' Or 'God didn't love me.' Or 'God didn't grant me what I needed.' Or 'God acted like he was inviting me but really didn't want me.' Which would all be legit excuses for someone in the Calvinistic system.
God could have shown them mercy. He didn't. You say he didn't because they rejected him. Fine.
Wrong. I say God did show them mercy by dying for them and inviting them to be reconciled. They didn't get mercy because they rejected the mercy being shown to them.
This may be why we are talking past each other. You think being shown mercy equals heaven and not being shown mercy equals hell, but that assumes the appeal to be reconciled is not a show of mercy.