Susanpet, I understand where you are coming from because we attend an Independent, Soulwinning, Bible preaching/teaching, Fundamental, Separated, Etc., Baptist Church. And we have altar call at every occasion. But if you are telling me that faith is equal to what you feel at any given time, then I have to tell you that you must be riding a wild roller coaster. Faith is not feelings; it is the blessed knowledge and assurance that you are saved by the precious blood of the Lamb.
Feelings never come into the equation of salvation, it is rather a byproduct. Please consider the following scenario, which must be a Bible standard of new birth:
1. FACTS = A sinner must hear the word of God.
2. FAITH = The sinner must believe in the accomplished work of Jesus on the cross, accept Him into his heart, and be baptized.
3. FEELINGS = Joy comes from a heart where Jesus dwells!
A classical Bible example is in Acts 8:26-39. It is the well-known story of Philip (the evangelist) and the Ethiopian eunuch. By using the above three points, we see the following:
1) FACTS = The eunuch read God's words but did not understand it.
Then Philip opened his mouth, and began at the same scripture, and preached unto him Jesus (v. 35).
2) FAITH = The eunuch believed!
And he answered and said, I believe that Jesus Christ is the Son of God (v. 37).
3. FEELING = The feeling of joy came after baptism.
And he commanded the chariot to stand still: and they went down both into the water, both Philip and the eunuch; and he baptized him. And when they were come out of the water, the Spirit of the Lord caught away Philip, that the eunuch saw him no more: and he went his way rejoicing. (v.v. 38, 39). PTL!
Now it is an altogether different animal when we speak of convictions of the soul. After hearing a fired up sermon for the Lord and we are convicted about something, which is not according to the will of God and we repent of same, we may come under the cross fresh and anew. If to you it means that you walk forward and pray there, it is fine. Others may prefer to do it in the pew where they stand. There is no commandment to go forward at any given time, only that you deal with your heart before the Lord. And lastly, it is the Lord who saves – not a preacher, not a member of the church. Therefore, unless the Lord prepares the heart of the sinner you can have thousands of “altar calls” without any results. But when the Lord prepares the individual, you do not need “priming the pump” for there is a well within that soul already from the Lord. (Just my humble opinion)