This received two "dumbs". Amen!
I have a hunch, just a hunch, but I wouldn't doubt the Holy Spirit was burning within your heart urging you to tell her 'God cares, and God sees your problems and loves you and wants to have a personal relationship with you through Jesus Christ. God wants you to have an abundant life and eternal life with Him'. But Calvinism quenches the Spirit, and your mind could not bring yourself to obey the Spirit. For the doctrine of Calvinism cannot tell a stranger God loves them. Kinda sad.
I could be wrong, that's between you and God, only you know how the Spirit was leading you at the time. I know when I am confronted with these situations the Holy Spirit wells up inside me directing me to tell them Jesus loves them and desires to have a relationship with them. As the conversation continues the Spirit leads me to invite the person to place their trust and faith in Jesus Christ and pray, calling on Him for the wonderful power of regeneration through the Holy Ghost!! What a blessing being counted as worthy to work the fields of harvest with the Holy Ghost Himself!! Praise Jesus!!!