Hi Cypress, I do not equate eternal punishment with eternal punishing. But I also do not equate torment with destruction. Unless those that advocate for destruction in Gehenna, clarify their view on the duration of torment, they seem to be evading truth. Jesus said those who die unsaved go to Hades immediately and are in torment. Now when those whose spirits are in Hades are resurrected to the white throne judgement, they are then tossed, body and soul, into the lake of fire. Are they immediately destroyed, or do they suffer additional torment as punishment for their sins in Gehenna before they are destroyed. Without taking a position on these two areas, those that argue against eternal torment seem to be firing an unloaded gun.
Just from your post let's try to determine, duration.
(You wrote) Jesus said those who die unsaved go to Hades immediately and are in torment.
(You also wrote) Now when those whose spirits are in Hades are resurrected to the white throne judgement, they are then tossed, body and soul, into the lake of fire.
Let me ask, do those spirits in Hades and or the bosom of the Abraham have,
eyes, fingers, tongues? Jesus did not say he was immediately was in torment. Jesus said in Hades he lift up his eyes (KJV)
having-lifted-upon to-the-ones to-eyes of-it, (Westott & Hort)
ON-LIFTing THE VIEWers OF-him (Scripture4all interlinear Greek)
This man was being resurrected as was the beggar, Lazarus.
The rich man body and soul was on the verge of being cast into the lake of fire.
He said of Lazarus, send him to my fathers house. What was the manner in which he would have to go? Verse 31 And he said unto him, If they hear not Moses and the prophets, neither will they be persuaded, though one rose from the dead BY resurrection.
Maybe less time than one would think being in torment.