You are quite adept at ignoring clear text that does not fit your theology. But I have come to expect that from some of a particular theological persuasion.
God does not force anyone to act against his or her will, but He changes it so that His people come to Him freely, Psalm 110:3 Acts 16:14. He takes away the hard, stony heart and replaces it with a malleable heart of flesh, Ezekiel 36:26. He gives new life to those dead in trespasses and sins, Ezekiel 37:9; Eph. 2:1-10. All these are acts of pure monergism; 'For it is God who works in you to do and to will of His good pleasure' (Phil. 2:13).
They come freely through faith, which is a condition.
2Sa 22:31 "As for God, His way is blameless; The word of the LORD is tested; He is a shield
to all who take refuge in Him.
Eph 3:11
according to the eternal purpose which He accomplished in Christ Jesus our Lord,
Eph 3:12 in whom
we have boldness and access with confidence through faith in Him.
Isa 45:22 "
Turn to Me and be saved, all the ends of the earth; For I am God, and there is no other.
Salvation is conditional upon faith in the risen Christ. Even you showed this in you quoted text.
Eph 2:5 even when we were dead in our transgressions, made us alive together with Christ (
by grace you have been saved),
Eph 2:8 For
by grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God;
Eph 2:9 not as a result of works, so that no one may boast.
Only God can save and He has chosen to save those that turn to Him in faith.
But according to calvinism God has to cause them to come via an irresistible force. So all you have done is show that your calvinist TULIP is wrong.
Under your calvinist view only those that are included in the Unconditional Election that will partake of the Limited Atonement will then be drawn to God by His Irresistible Grace. So all men do not have an equal chance to know or trust in God. Your own theology precludes this, but you it seems do not want to acknowledge that fact.