You make it sound as if the work of the Spirit in prophesy is somehow opposed to Spirit-leading in other areas.
You need to ask God why He gave gifts to men and women. It makes sense to me and works beautifully. It is a shame you won't recognize it based on extrabiblical doctrines.
The Lord never have a woman the roles of beinmg Apostle/Pastor/Elder in a local assembly though in the Bible,and again, why a ned to hve a gift to prophesy when the Spirit imself at times allows us to word things just s God wants it to be anywats?