Believe it or not there are many Cals in real life, maybe not on this board that are just as hard on non-cals as Wineman is on Cals. I have heard one say in the pulpit he hated Arminian's, and used the scripture Psa 139:22 where David said I hate them with a perfect hatred. I told my wife, a preacher is not supposed to preach hate out of the pulpit. Christ said to love your enemies that men might see that you are the children of God. I am constantly hearing out of this same man's pulpit that free willer's are not saved. Just last Sunday the guy said if a man left sovereign grace gospel and went to the free will church he had committed the un-pardonable sin. I've heard him say every thing from a woman that works don't know Christ to if a Christian couple files for a divorce, the one that filed first don't know Christ. So there seems to be enough hatred on both sides to go around.
I have nothing against Calvinists personally, I simply believe Calvinism is a false doctrine. I don't just say that like some folks do, I provide scripture over, and over, and over again to support my view.
No one ever refutes the scripture I present, they just say it is wrong. That is not an argument.
But when a Calvinist presents their view, say Irresistible Grace for example, I present scripture that clearly refutes it;
Mat 22:2 The kingdom of heaven is like unto a certain king, which made a marriage for his son,
3 And sent forth his servants
to call them that were bidden to the wedding:
and they would not come.
See, God calls men to come to the wedding of his son. They are bidden. And God is sincere, he means it. When these folks refuse to listen and come he destroys them. This utterly refutes Irresistible Grace.
I don't hate Calvinists at all, but I do hate Calvinism, it is false doctrine.
If I didn't care, I wouldn't say anything.